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In the beginning, there was Adam......  

legsallthewayup 61F
58 posts
9/13/2006 5:53 am

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7/24/2007 8:07 am

In the beginning, there was Adam......

t's funny how many blogs I read simply in my quest to read my boyfriends writings....But it has led me to read some very moving pieces.This was a response to one of those....

I am a retired fire captain and single mother of one, truly exceptional, teenage . I was going through an intensely painful divorce and working out of town at a new fire dept. in the vacation relief slot. One day a week, I worked at the headquarters station under the supervision of a certain married captain. What started out as a friendship between peers colleagues blossomed into a full blown,<b> illicit </font></b>affair. No worries about pregnancy though, as I was on the pill. 3 months after conception, I became aware of my pregnancy. You may say, how could I not know I was pregnant for 3 months? Trust me, I didnt have any idea...i mean, how would I know? I was in excellent physical condition, working out like a madman and partying my ass off on every set of days off. Having an irregular mentsrual cycle was second nature to me. When I discovered the new life growing like a tomato inside of me, I immediately made an appointment with the local planned parenthood office to terminate the pregnancy..I was not the ideal candidate for motherhood in my current situation, nor was the father.

LOng story not as long as, trust me, it could be, I ended up on the day of the appointment making the decision to keep my baby...I was making a good salary, and worked every day to save the lives of other peoples , I just couldnt deny the life of my own . I put my faith in whatever higher power was listening, be it god, the universe, whatever ....that I was making the right decision and that it would all work out. As I had been unaware of the pregnancy for the first 3 months, and had been partying pretty heavily, and I'm not talking about just drinking, I was concerned that I may have inadavertantly harmed the unborn .
The day my was born was surreal, to say the least. I was at the hospital with my support network, close friends and family, and was scheduled for a cesarean section due to issues with the pregnancy. The father was there, as was his wife and 2 daughters, to welcome to the world, their new baby half brother. Man, I really should write a book, this could go on forever....lol Let me sum up.

My was born, healthy, save for some jitteryness and jaundice and other such J words and he has been my saviour. Not one day passes that I dont thank the powers that be for giving me this most awesome gift. Because of him, I learned of the power of forgiveness, and how strong and influential it could be and just how much it could change a life. I also learned the joy of seeing and learning the world through the eyes of a . I became appreciative of all that I had and less concerned with that which I did not have. My turns 18 next march. He has been living with his father since he turned 11 and hit puberty with a vengance. He is the pride of his parents, his sisters, his extended family, his school and his community. He has touched so many lives, I cannot imagine any life with out him in it.

No, I would not change a single , heart wrenching minute of the ordeal that brought us to this place. He is worth all of it. All before, all during, and all after.

proud mary sheri

look for more details in the future.....


Bobbybyz 67M

7/24/2007 7:38 am

I have to say, that this posing touches me. You are a true positive influence and an intellect that I would love to know. Your gift is awsome.....

Bobby


miklox4 58M
2043 posts
9/2/2013 4:49 pm

Legs, what can I say after reading this? You are totally an awesome woman inside and out. A pillar of your gender and not to mention a total example of the type of woman other women should strive to be.
To me, that makes you the total package.

Mik


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