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Motherly Advice
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Motherly Advice I was talking to my who's in the process of trying to leave a dysfunctional relationship. She went on a date, came home depressed and miserable because she said she couldn't help but wish she had been with her ex instead of the man she was out with. I told her I can empathize completely...I'm going through a somewhat similar situation. Then I proceeded to give her the talk that there's two kinds of sex...just for fun and pleasure, and one that also includes, true affection and emotional fulfillment. Both serve a purpose. Then I began to wonder if it's good motherly advice to encourage promiscuity. But would it be hypocritical for me to live my life one way and discourage my adult from doing the same? Then again, is a 20-something yr old capable of having the same attitude about sex as someone my age? |
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Hi Ladies & Gents & Tresennui, I'm 78 and I still like sex. At my age, keeping a hard on requires too much concentration, even with sildenafil or tadalafil, so wtf, I strap and peg. I have only 2 bought stap ons, but have a nice selection of homemade dildos, including a fish bat attached to a leather belt at groin level. I've got relationships ranging in 3 categories: Romantic, Party Sex & a Spa-Like relationship. Romance is for marriage, Party sex is for just that - having a party & Spa-Like sex is new. You go to a Spa for a massage or a Brazilian. Why not come to me for 10 minutes on my cunnilingus table adjusted at the right height to stap & Peg into your anal opening, standing between your thighs? I let a girl do it to me, so I know exactly what a girl feels when I peg her. I enjoy delivering, sometimes lowering the strap down, almost around my thighs. And, only if you require it, we can reciprocate. You need to have a job or some income. I don't charge & you shouldn't either. You need to be able to keep up the human spirit after fucking like an animal. Clairvoyant people sometimes can tell you've been having sex. You need to be unashamed and poised and respect and be respectable. I have a high regard for a lady who really likes sex. But neighbors can be cruel - it doesn't bother me but you need to be able to tell judgmental people to fuck off while keeping poise. Chicago, IL - Far North Side. ProudOfMyAge77
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if it's good motherly advice to encourage promiscuity. ... Yes it is. This is 2018, not 1918. But would it be hypocritical for me to live my life one way and discourage my adult child from doing the same? .... Yes. Then again, is a 20-something yr old capable of having the same attitude about sex as someone my age? .... No. They lack the personal experiences associated with sex , win or lose. But to tell her there is a special man out there waiting for a woman like her, and she should safe her vagina for that man, -- today, is a lie. More and more men are turning away from marriage, and turning to transient sexual relationships, -not committing. And the men who are committing, are often the males she would not be interested in having a sexual relationship with him. Then again, is a 20-something yr old capable of having the same attitude about sex as someone my age? .... If you got married very young , and didn't have any sex with any other man except your husband? Then, yes, a 20-something yr old and yourself would be at the same experience level.
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1/21/2009 11:09 am |
I don't have kids so am not sure if I qualify to comment but its definitley interesting to think about. I would imagine it comes down to your "maturity". If a person is in a point in their life where they are in touch and honest with their feelings and are not hurting anyone elses... and when that situation comes, it makes sesne. I hope I just made sense. lol S//
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I think you did the right thing. You shouldn't worry about being a hypocrite unless you told her to do or not do something that you would or wouldn't do. The key to being a role model is consistency and credibility... no matter what the situation may be. As long as she understands the risks, takes appropriate precautions and is careful, she probably isn't doing anything that she hasn't already done. It all depends on what SHE is looking for, how SHE defines fulfillment, and what HER comfort level is with relationships. Since she doesn't have the same depth of life experience that you have, her perceptions and expectations of relationships may be vastly different... so be it. I am hopeful as she realizes that the relationship is dysfunctional and she is trying to end it. We all have a comfort zone. Regardless of how good or bad it is, the hardest thing to do is break out of it. Most of us don't ever break out of it and live miserably, others are forced out of it, while few have the strength and take the steps necessary to step out on their own. While you are her mom for life, you can't direct her life forever. She needs to make and live with her own decisions, needs, and wants; along with the joys and pains associated with all of that. I think that's what maturing as an independent adult is all about. The best you can do is to be there when she asks for advice and not judge her if she doesn't heed it. Craven... good at handing out advice.
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U did what U thought was best..... That's all that matters it up 2 your daughter 2 take that good advise u gave and run with it.
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I would only encourage her to seek out what makes her truly happy, whether it be sex for fun and pleasure, or the kind that requires trust, comfort, and a real connection. The choice will always be hers, no matter what your lifestyle is. Simply put, she should make her own decision. She may be your daughter, but she is her own person, and she is the only one that can decide what is right for her. You may disagree with her decision, but as long as it is made in a calm, thoughtful manner, respecting her wishes is, in my opinion, the best course of action. GLC
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