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Nothing like a sexually explicit email to make me wonder.......  

tresennui 69F  
2843 posts
12/17/2008 5:50 pm

Last Read:
3/3/2019 7:17 pm

Nothing like a sexually explicit email to make me wonder.......

You know you're out there, the thousands (mega-thousands) of men who send emails touting their talents in cunnilingus, and a cock, that would cause any woman to beg to be fucked in every orifice...I was wondering...what response, if any do you expect from your emails? Do you truly think a woman will take you up on what you have to offer? Or does just the act of writing your thoughts and fantasies get you off? I need to emphasize I am NOT in anyway offended by these emails. I feel A F F is a place for anyone to express themselves sexually however they want, to whomever they want. Even though many are not here (so they say) for mainly sex...it is in reality a porn site. So I'm not asking these questions to judge anyone. I'm asking them because I'm curious what goes through someone's mind when they send those type of emails. I also wonder, do any women (not professional ones) send emails (intro emails) telling men they'd like to suck their cocks and fuck them with the hope they'll get emailed back and taken up on their offers?



Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
3/3/2019 4:54 pm

I have written a few erotic emails to woman that also have written back to me. We live a distance apart and know we might ever meet. As adults it does sound juvenile yet entertaining and satisfying for each other needs at the time. Had we been closer and able to make connections we would know what works for each other. They are words if the other person does not what one is written they should let them know it offends and to stop.


midwest56 64M
1 post
11/10/2014 5:17 pm

I have written them back when the whole idea of this taking place on line began, back in prodigy chat rooms and aol rooms and a few other post sites that have since gone away. Back then women responded just as aggressively cause the site was not real time it posted and kept just did not scroll you had to refresh to keep in conversation.
As the medium changed that raunchy male email opener or profile blurb became a stereotype to be laughed at or bounced out of a chat room so I think now the number would have to be going down if not males are sexually bankrupt lol so hopefully just anecdotal by level of distaste not in raw numbers of women receiving hundreds of emails that low in grade my gosh if that is the reality yikes


chiguy957 67M
2 posts
10/25/2013 7:32 pm

I thinks it's due to the 'net and the anonymity it provides. People think they can get away with saying something they would never say to someone face to face. If they get an answer, great, If not, well, they got their rocks off in writing and sending the email. I personally think it's ill mannered, especially early on, unless things seem to be moving in that direction.


tresennui replies on 10/27/2013 12:40 pm:
On a sexually explicit sight like this, whose to judge what's ill mannered? The general premise of A F F is "gets your rocks off" either online or if you are lucky in person. Anything else that comes with it is just an unexpected bonus. ...unexpected until you've been here a while and realize it's more than meets the eye.

sexophone1932 93M
124 posts
9/8/2013 11:32 am

I write sexually explicit emails after an earlier exchange indicates that she welcomes it and will reply in kind.

As to your question about a woman writing an explicit introductory email the answer is yes. My profile picture is my cock. I made a post on this site a few days ago and the first response was from a woman who said I would love to suck your cock.

That wasn't the first time.


twoputt33 64M

1/9/2009 11:49 am

I don't profess to be a Greek God or any super talented sex machine. I am however here looking for a spark that could ignite into the passionate sexual interlude's that I seek.I can't be much more honest than that.What are you looking for?
Twoputt33


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/20/2008 11:36 am

I find it amusing that there's been almost 100 views of this post and not one comment from someone who sends those kind of emails. I know you're out there I get them everyday. Hmmmm got to wonder..they either don't read blogs (just look at pictures, I suppose) or won't fess up. You can email me your answers to keep it anonymous. As I've stated, I'm not judgmental..just curious. [image]

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


Mustang1542 56M  
74 posts
12/18/2008 2:39 am

I've gotten a few of those 'emails'...ones like GLC spoke of...I think they are funny....maybe it's a male trapped in a female body...YIKES!


gentile_sadico 59M
1392 posts
12/17/2008 9:12 pm

i must be missing out, i've never received an email like that from any woman, but i have gotten them from bi-guys..lol


goodlookincookin 53M
157 posts
12/17/2008 6:53 pm

Tres, the truth is...the people (men AND women) that write those types of emails are expecting something along the lines of a quick fix. They don't want to be bothered with getting to know someone. They just want to get off, and be done...literally.

A couple of years ago, when I lived in Worth, I received an email from someone a few miles away. The only word in the subject line was, "Tonight". It was a one-sentence email that read, "Let's hook up tonight."

I thought to myself, "Let's see where this goes." So, I emailed her back, saying "Got a time in mind?". She replied with, "After my husband leaves for work, around 8." My red flag went up right away, and I declined with a polite, "No thanks. No married women."

Her profile said SINGLE, by the way.

My thinking is, she was looking for that quick shot of adventure that she either needed or wanted. Hence the straight and to-the-point email.

I can only guess at the miniscule percentage of times that such outright forward behavior actually works. But, as a wise man once said, "Even a blind squirrel occasionally finds a nut."

As long as there is a glimmer of hope that it'll work, unfortunately those types of emails will continue to haunt A F F.

GLC


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