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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Defending the Beast  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
3/8/2009 2:57 pm

Last Read:
2/3/2022 10:33 pm
Defending the Beast


I've got to do it....defend the male species. I read so many blogs and posts referring to inconsiderate, thoughtless, unfeeling men. Men who use women, treat them poorly and mislead them with their intentions.

I've been doing an extensive study in my few years at A F F (lost track of the numbers, but they're WAY up there I assure you) and I have not found this to be the case at all. Even if the encounter didn't pan out to be more then a drink, dinner or a one time sexual experience, I have never met anyone who treated me badly, led me to believe they were anything other than who they were and wanted more from me than we discussed prior to meeting. If anything I find men to be overly sensitive, easily hurt and more then willing to discuss their thoughts, feelings and expectations. Additionally, the majority are VERY willing to please.

I think we're all out there looking for something, someone and exploring the sexual side of ourselves. I personally don't know what my wants and needs are...I have a good idea, but hard to say definitively. Because of my own ambivalence, I understand quite well the inability of others to express themselves and what might seem like deception and being intentionally hurtful on their part, is actually caused by indecisiveness and self-confusion. How can you commit or tell someone what you truly want or feel, if you don't even know yourself?
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/17/2015 11:11 pm

 I really don't think it would be considered exploring our sexual side as much as it is just doing other people.Those people being people we've only known for hours or days in some cases.

Great comments that will never be read by those that could learn something.
Sometimes just emasculating men from the comfort of their own homes here on the blogs tend to all sound the same but they affect everyone!Thank You!JB
Using more than all the road!


rm_craven1on1 64M
682 posts
4/8/2009 4:52 pm

 Well said and it hits so close to home too!

Craven


mmguy52 71M  
2126 posts
3/17/2009 3:24 pm

 Tres, I think yu hit the nail on the head. I do try and be honest in my conversations. I do have emotions and even show them sometimes. And as you say, I do like to please. Thank you for the blog, it helps me believe that there are nice people out there.


rm_factiva20 36M
33 posts
3/10/2009 9:34 am

 Much appreciated! I've heard a lot of smack about us guys too...I agree there are the a-holes but not all of us are. I think it'd be nice if women went in with an optimistic view each time they met a guy.

Oh and the thing about the bad pic? Yeah my pic is pretty bad. I haven't taken a new one in a while but I'm a hell of a lot fitter than I am in the pic lol...so that's why the bad pic is up : /.


OntheCeelo81 42M
59 posts
3/9/2009 8:59 pm

 I absolutely agree...Thanks for posting!


KarlBloggerfeld 54M
8624 posts
3/9/2009 2:30 pm

 As a pig of a man who lacks manners, good personal hygiene and any sense of social boundaries, I thank you as well.
karlbloggerfeld - Dry-humping your legs since 2007.


secertdesire2006 62M

3/9/2009 5:47 am

 Thank you for the kind words.


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