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Advice from an "Older" Woman
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Advice from an "Older" Woman I hear it from younger men all the time...they say they want to be with an older woman because of her experience so they can learn. As one who has no desire to teach during play, I still am willing to give some advice. First and foremost, slow down and savor. Men seem to put so much pressure on themselves to bring a woman to orgasm that they concentrate mainly on the genitals and they don''t take into account that there is a whole body filled with erogenous zones wanting to be stimulated. Not that having someone lick a clit and finger fuck simultaneously is bad, but there is so much more...more before you get to that point. It all starts with foreplay. Verbal foreplay is the beginning, words, through chat or spoken....teasing conversation, playful innuendo, expression of desire, all gets things started. This leads into a good make out session - kisses, soft tender, then deep passionate and wet. Touching, stroking the entire body. Of course the breasts and nipples need attention, but exploring and discovering every inch is pleasantly erotic and extremely stimulating. Don't rush through this...take your time it will get a woman to the point where she wants you to go down on her and/or fuck her...her body is craving the ultimate intensity of feeling you tease her clit...enter her now very wet, wanting pussy...anxiously anticipating your hard cock deep inside, sliding in over and over again. Moments like this are not just for your first encounter. In order for a sexual relationship to sustain, there needs to be continual passion, not just the mechanical, lets both have an orgasm and be done with it, sex. There will be times that a fast fuck is desired; however, that should be the exception, not the norm. By the way, if any women are reading this...the same should be reciprocated to the man. He may like a quick blow job to get things started, but once he's experienced someone appreciating and lusting over his entire body, taking a slow passionately erotic approach....he'll never forget it.  |
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Well stated my lady ! Cheers - P
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Well put T take the time to enjoy all of what a partner has to offer. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I agree very much. All good things take their time ... 
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10/15/2016 5:50 pm |
Well said! "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Nothing more enjoyable then the journey .... time ... total exploration ... gentle touching from the top of the head to the toes .. purposely tease the areas to revisit. Learning the parts of your partners body that make her quiver. Seduction .. foreplay .. making love all begin with your eyes and your words. . Well said ... thank you
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12/31/2009 10:25 am |
YES..Yes..Yes... I agree. twoputt33 
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11/21/2009 7:49 pm |
I AGREE AND ALSO BELEIVE A MAN SHOULD GIVE A 110 PERCENT WHEN HE IS PLEASING A WOMENS BODY.THERE ARE A LOT MORE AREAS TO CONSIDER.THAT IS WHAT YOUR YOUNGER MEN WILL HAVE TO LEARN.I CAN SPEND HOURS ON FOREPLAY. A WOMENS WHOLE BODY FROM HEAD TO FOOT NEEDS TO BE TAKEN CARE OF.I WILL HOPE THAT I WILL HAVE A CHANCE WITH YOU AND SPEND LOTS OF TIME GETTING TO KNOW YOUR BODY AND ENJOYING TO SEE YOU QUIVER.LOL
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Dare I toss my two cents but SUPREMELY WRITTEN, top to bottom!! This blog communicates more than some sexual relationships...applauds at your wisdom!
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Great blog, and that is why I would love to chat and meet you. You seem to know what is ging on.
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10/31/2009 8:43 am |
love to chat with you sometime beautiful
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But you know Tresennui I am actually a little over an hour from you, which is not that far for me to drive at all. Can't we chat a little and see what happens. Thanks for listening and hope you re-consider.
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You know Tresennui I have been trying for onths now to chat with you. We are in same network but just can't seem to hook up. We have emailed back and forth also for awhile. If you want to chat any I am the same name on the "why" if you want to. Well hope to hear from you soon.
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You know Tresennui I have been trying for onths now to chat with you. We are in same network but just can't seem to hook up. We have emailed back and forth also for awhile. If you want to chat any I am the same name on the "why" if you want to. Well hope to hear from you soon.
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10/23/2009 11:37 pm |
Very well wrtten "Tres" the same is true for us women and how we approach the man. I love lightly licking and playfully touching all over his body. I will spend time teasing all around the area of his cock before really turning my attention to it. I find that the way I enjoy being touched, carressed, kissed etc, is pretty much the same kind of thing that turns a man on too! You're very right when you say sometimes a quick fuck is what the plan ends up being but those times we can slow down a little are great. One last thought, there is, to me,such a thing as taking foreplay too slow. This hasn't happened often but it did happen recently and when I learned that the man prefers long long slow foreplay as the norm, I decided that I didn't feel as though he and I were ging to be very compatible.
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well said tres and i totally agree
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10/22/2009 6:17 am |
This is something evry1 should read!!
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Absofuckinlutely! After that relationship is established... all it may take after that is hearing a sigh, seeing "that look", or getting a new photo.. Craven... (sigh)
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Well said is right, there is nothing more attractive than a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and who knows how to communicate it! Well said indeed Ms Tres!
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Well said!!!!! Time, taste, touch, talk.........Bravo!!! If I have stopped by your blog, please be sure to sign my permission slip Pimp Me, Pimp My Blog, But Let Me Do The Same With You 
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