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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Pizza & Soda Pop Included  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
3/6/2010 3:54 pm

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Pizza & Soda Pop Included

I know of a group that has frequent hotel parties, admittance is free for woman, men are asked for a of $45. There are snack foods, pizza, soft drinks...no alcohol allowed...and did I mention women? This group is a social club (predominately on line) who's primary activity is the pursuit of sex. Some attending arrive as couples, a handful of single women, the vast majority are single men. The parties take place in adjoining hotel suites so there are usually 4 beds for activities.

The social activities at these functions are a limited number of friends who knew each other from previous parties, engaging in conversation as well as sex, and then a few of the women playing with single men they just met and talked with and found desirable. All men having arrived eager to partake in a night of debauchery. The vast majority are men left to linger on the sidelines observing idly or masturbating as they watch the action.

I'm wondering is this what a lot of the "social group" parties are like? Compared to going to legit "clubs" are these men "getting off" for cheap? Should the women at these parties be getting some of the that's being taken in?

Just one of the things I'm thinkin' about,
taking up space in my brain.



Tresennui
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rm_dalilad 70M
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10/21/2010 9:21 pm

 I’m guessing that every guy who goes to one of these things and pays his 45 dollars is expecting to get laid. Even if they go over and over again and never get laid, I’m betting that each time they go they expect this time they’ll get lucky. They aren’t paying 45 bucks to watch other people get sex; they are being polite and not causing a scene probably hoping to catch a few crumbs, should they fall their way.
Is it possible that some guys have been doing this for years and come knowing full well that they aren’t going to get any? Honesty, I don’t know. I guess anything is possible (and the opinion of a person who has actually been to one of these things is more valid than my speculation).
If I paid money (presumably to cover the hotel room costs, food, drink and the organizers profit) and I didn’t get laid I’d feel miffed if the women—who didn’t have to fork over a dime—got sex and got paid on top of that. But I’m a petty, small person, so maybe the men who’d be in this position wouldn’t feel like they got screwed twice, and not the way they hoped.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
6/19/2010 12:12 pm
    Quoting  :
Mia I'm wondering what school you went to?!?!?!?!?
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


2469danny 61M

3/16/2010 12:32 pm

 My opinion on it is...why would you let the men who nobody wanted, watch?

The way I look at it is unless you get off on others watching and masturbating, then tell them adios.

Danny


tresennui replies on 4/15/2010 10:07 pm:
Oh yes, it's a big turn on to be watched....but there's a moment when you look up and suddenly realize there are too many people watching that it no longer feels like a social function....more like you're putting on a show. And if that's the case...you gotta wonder, is some sort of compensation in order? BTW not saying that fun and satisfaction isn't had by all involved. As I said, just something to think about.

XXXBBC4U 50M

3/13/2010 5:59 am

 There is nothing wrong with going to parties and just looking. If that's what you're into. But if women go there for more than a great time, ie. some of the donation, it takes away from the whole party scene. We are all adults and by coming to an adult party we know what we want. Donations should be accepted to help cover costs for the room, food and drinks. But if someone throws parties just to make a buck, they are in this lifestyle for the wrong reason. So, lets continue to party to meet new people, laugh, drink, and fuck our brains out!


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
3/11/2010 1:37 pm

 I guess it all depends on what each person is into and what they are looking for. It doesn't sound like my cup of tea, but if that's what gets you off, $45 for a night of snacks etc and watching real people get off, hey, who am I to argue. I prefer my pursuit of the flesh and actively participate with wonderful women partners.


photon46 76M
339 posts
3/9/2010 6:43 am

 When I graduated high school, I buddy of mine took the bus to Pittsburgh to go the the Pittsburgh Jazz Festival. We had almost no money and found ourselves when the festival was no on during the day going to Kennywood Park watching other people have fun since we could not afford the tickets. That is the last time I went somewhere to watch someone else have fun.
You could watch a lot of porn movies for $45.
Blecch


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