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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

EASY????  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
7/19/2010 5:36 am

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EASY????
I could not believe my eyes when in a chat room conversation regarding sex on a first date a woman referred to women who have sex on the first date as "easy" and others agreed. WTF.....is it the 1950s??? Are we on eharmony??? Even if we weren't on A F F, a website that in reality is a porn site disguised as a dating site, or is it a dating site disguised as a porn site, woman should be able to have sex whenever they want, with whoever they want, because they want to, without being labeled.

Though I do have to pose this question....if women who have sex on the first date are easy.....does that mean men on the first date are hard?......one would hope so.


Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
TwistedViper20XX 42M

1/2/2015 1:44 pm

 I agree. Women are somehow labeled "easy" if they have sex "too soon..." but what about the guys they had sex with to earn that label?


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exediter 68M

1/23/2011 9:37 pm

 No menwho have sex on the first date are Easier


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/22/2010 5:56 am
    Quoting rm_mlions257:
    We did go thru talking about how women are easily labeled in the Chatroom a while ago. It is the other women that are doing the labeling because they want to do it to - but afraid or envious of who hooked up. SOrry you cant have it all. Me the thrill of first date sex isnt there - I can do it but build the excitement above the animal drive to something more meaningful and lasting tease a little bit and have more fun on the second or third date. I also enjoy getting signals like hugs and snuggles in public - I think its called being frisky. Stand back and watch the wood harden and it lasts longer.
But if the desire's there...what are u waiting for? Who says it will be more fun on another day if you're having fun on the first? Did your parents? Your minister? No need for name calling/labeling. Not saying I always have sex on the first date...but I leave my options open. If it feels right...I have no preset rules. As for expectations on A F F, remember where we are...this is not a vanilla dating site this is porn people...pussys on display..cocks proudly erect right before our eyes...people showing their stuff....are they just teasing? Not saying you have to have sex with everyone - but don't give the appearance that you're sexually liberated and act like a prude criticizing others who do.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


rm_mlions257 67M
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7/21/2010 7:49 pm

 We did go thru talking about how women are easily labeled in the Chatroom a while ago. It is the other women that are doing the labeling because they want to do it to - but afraid or envious of who hooked up. SOrry you cant have it all. Me the thrill of first date sex isnt there - I can do it but build the excitement above the animal drive to something more meaningful and lasting tease a little bit and have more fun on the second or third date. I also enjoy getting signals like hugs and snuggles in public - I think its called being frisky. Stand back and watch the wood harden and it lasts longer.


rm_craven1on1 64M
682 posts
7/21/2010 8:24 am

 Really?!?!?! What chat room was this? My opinion is that if someone is that judgemental, they don't belong on this site and hopefully won't stay here long. Besides, who wants to be with someone with a closed mind anyway?

FYI: If the guy isn't hard on the first date, there probably won't be a second one...

Craven...


gentile_sadico 59M
1392 posts
7/20/2010 9:27 pm

 some people are just too judgmental regarding first date sex...


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
7/19/2010 3:21 pm

 LOL, yes men on the 1st date are hard.....one way or the other....with attitudes like that. does that mean all women are "suzy homemaker"? I sure hope not.


mmguy52 71M  
2126 posts
7/19/2010 8:21 am

 As you said, this is a dating site, and sex on the first date should be something that both agree on. Other than that, have fun.


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