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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

I've Been Blocked????  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
3/22/2011 6:44 pm

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10/21/2016 7:56 pm
I've Been Blocked????


Don't know why I'm letting it bother me. I don't really care if people say negative things about my lifestyle, moral fortitude or even my appearance. But I pride myself on being friendly and non-judgmental so when someone doesn't think I'm a nice person....that gets to me. I recently received an email from someone who I think I might have chatted with in a chatroom. I don't recall having any personal conversations with him or meeting him. I often don't even reply to emails if they're from someone I don't have any intention of pursuing a relationship of some type with and just rely on my auto-reply to answer for me, but since he seemed to be someone who I've conversed with I figured...what the heck, I'd respond.. I thought I did it in a pretty friendly way. And now he's blocked me. BTW the photo he's referring to is me with a cock in my mouth

Would like some opinions. Did I write anything wrong, rude, disrespectful? I usually consider correspondence here private and seldom share with anyone else. I would never name names either. But, here's the short exchange of emails.

Re: Great photo!!

Dearest Tresennui,

It is nice to see that your mouth can do something other than spew "wise cracks." Remember me? I hope you do!

My Reply:

Don't know what possessed me to put up the pic....guess I like to see what different reactions I get. So far all are favorable.


RE: RE: Great photo!!............recognize sarcasm??

Dearest Tresennui,

When I first joined this site, I tried to be sincere and realistic. You cured me of that and prepared me for all the game players I would encounter who were just here to "see what different reactions" they could elicit from other game players. Don't bother responding...you are blocked.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
rm_DrJLT1 71M
8 posts
10/28/2012 11:03 pm

 Tresennui,
That guy appears to be a person that has a problem. He gets off by hurting people on line hes like a prank caller on the phone. He may have blocked you but he can be removed for abuse. He knew that his post was going to upset you, if you let it then he is cumming thinking that he made someone feel as bad as he does. This guy sounds like he really hates women. You should report him cause you just might be kone of many nice women on this site that he is taking advantage of and sending those disturbing messages too.


tresennui replies on 10/29/2012 4:21 pm:
I think he seems more like a man that's been hurt too many times. Maybe not always intentionally or on purpose, but he takes rejection of any kind way too personally. With his attitude he could most often, bring it upon himself.

But, then again...as you know I generally try to see the best in people.

JohnDrake6 66M

4/13/2011 12:07 pm

 Tres,

I suspect something like this:

A guy wrote you or chatted with you. While you are are interested in men, you are also cautious in many ways. I know, for example, that in my very first interactions with you, I, like many men, was to singularly focused on what men seem to be singularly focused upon. And as a result, I didn't hit your radar.

Time passed, we both chatted in the Chicago room, and got to know and appreciate each others feelings, senses of humor, likes and dislikes, although we are very different. Today we are friends, and I believe under the right circumstances, I might just hit that radar.

Your "blocker" I suspect thought he had "earned" or "deserved" more attention than you gave him after an initial conversation. And so, he now dislikes you for that, as he reads your unwillingness to be his toy as a rejection of him or as "playing" him.

Why would you be concerned over what such a person would think or do?


tresennui replies on 4/13/2011 4:13 pm:
Maybe if I could recall earlier conversations with him it wouldn't have perplexed me as much. Me a player? I've been called a few choice words, but player isn't one of them.

So under the right circumstances you think you might hit the radar....hmm radar euphemism for what I'm wondering.

rufus61912 62M
54 posts
3/23/2011 8:11 pm

 tres u r great dont let it get u down n out


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 9:19 pm:
If I'm going down it isn't for of someone like him.

RocketJ13 56M

3/23/2011 4:54 pm

 Perhaps he's just a douchebag


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 9:17 pm:
Hmmmm I should have thought of that.

packageman57 67M
1093 posts
3/23/2011 1:49 pm

 If you don't have a fairly thick skin, then this is not the place for you...and I'm not talking about you Tres. I don't see that you wrote anything remotely close to being offensive. The one issue I have with email, chat rooms, im's and such is that the tone of voice is so important for interpretation. Things can be taken out of context. BTW, I love the pick with one big exception....thats not my cock...oh well...


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 9:17 pm:
Suppose I should have written "lol" at the end. And BTW...no that's not our cock....I don't think. lol

rm_ISORareGem 60F
8183 posts
3/23/2011 12:10 am

 this person sounds crazy scary. REALLY. If they react that quickly and that strongly, be thankful to be done with them.

BE SAFE.
what the world needs now..........


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 5:28 am:
It was only an email....never anyone I was planning to meet. I've been lucky here....met many, many people....and so far no one scary.

iwillfall4u58 66M
Ask me for a photo

3/22/2011 10:57 pm

 Nothing wrong, rude or disrespectbul in this little exchange. He was obviously hurt by some "wise cracks" you made in a chatroom in the past. He says he tried to be sincere and realistic. Maybe he tried hitting on you and you dismissed him? Could have been yesterday, last week or last month. Oh well....


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 5:31 am:
When he wrote that comment I was wondering if I had possibly met him at some point. Hoping he wasn't one I had forgotten Triple Digits. Oops there I go with the wisecrack again.

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
3/22/2011 8:46 pm

 I've been blocked once (from a couple). Not a good feeling when you go to click on their profile and it says "you do not have permission to view this profile". I emailed them prior to being blocked. Don't think I said anything wrong, rude, or out of the ordinary. Hmmm... go figure.
Thoughts from the Garden...


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 5:32 am:
I shouldn't take it personally. I just hate to think I've ruined someone's A F F experience.

theonethatownsu 58M

3/22/2011 8:37 pm

 I didn't think you were rude. I'm sorry this happened, and count yourself lucky to discover how lucky you were to see his true colors.
STALKING! Know it! Name it! Stop it!

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tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 5:33 am:
Thank goodness he wasn't someone I considered getting in a relationship with...sounds overly sensitive, doesn't he?

Bogie106 75M
15322 posts
3/22/2011 8:33 pm

 OH WELL!!!..HIS STORY..YOU ARE FINE JUST WHO YOU ARE...AND CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT...SO YOU GO FOR IT..DON'T HAVE SOMEONE CHANGE YOU AND WHAT YOU ARE...SOUNDS LIKE CONTROL TO ME...ENJOY


tresennui replies on 3/23/2011 5:37 am:
I always felt you can't take many initial email exchanges and chat room conversations here all that seriously. It's just for fun.

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