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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Lonely Nights  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
4/25/2011 9:31 pm

Last Read:
3/12/2013 9:18 pm
Lonely Nights
Easy to find someone to have
sex with.....difficult finding someone I want to sleep with.

Sometimes I miss it...a lot.


Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
rm_AngelRose606 61F
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5/13/2011 3:15 pm

 This is so very true... I know what you mean.. It is so easy for us women fo find a sex partner, but then again, it is hard to find a man who is actually willing to spend the night afterwards. I have been sleeping alone for almost 2 years now, with my husband sleeping in the next room, and I long for someone to hold me, snuggle me, and love me... I know that someday I will find love again, but in the meantime, I have to cuddle with a teddy bear!


fiftyfine 74M
62 posts
5/2/2011 4:47 am

 Thinking back, don't believe there was ever a lady I did not enjoy spending a lot of time with. Before, during, and after sex. Find the "pillow talk" very revealing......for both of us. I tend to open up in a full state of relaxation and a smiling lady next to me always seems to be in a talkative mood. Then the attraction & foreplay begins again.....and again......and again. Less sleep, more action!


tresennui replies on 5/3/2011 5:40 am:
Lucky you. You find the right ladies then. All too often I meet men, I like them. They are nice guys. We have a good time. But the desire to fall asleep with them, have them there the whole night with me...and again in the morning.......just hasn't been there.

nwburbsswm 61M
147 posts
4/27/2011 5:30 pm

 I have to agree. There are MANY people here I enjoy talking to. Some have become friends. Some I would like to be intimate with. Some I would like to REALLY get to know. REALLY get to know as in, share more than just a romp in the sheets. Share who I am without any fear of judgement or rejection, YES a CONNECTION. Those are the ones I would like to share a bed with, not just a romp in bed.

Keep looking Tress, the one is out there.


tresennui replies on 5/3/2011 5:46 am:
Always looking

BeezrRider 74M

4/26/2011 12:03 pm

 I think this is true of many though it is a silent majority. I use to work in a blue collar union shop and I think 99% of the men there only cared if you pussy - nine to ninety, blind, crippled or crazy they use to say. But, speaking for myself, there has to be some connection, some met need there for it to go to where bed becomes an option. I never was a sleep around though even now my eyes are always looking. I guess I never so much wanted cheap sex as I wanted to make a woman feel appreciated, needed, and satisfied. Perhaps that comes with the years?


tresennui replies on 5/3/2011 5:48 am:
Not necessarily talking about cheap sex or just horny guys. It's me too. Sex can be fun. There can even be friendships. I'm just not feeling a desire, for closeness, intimacy in a non-sexual way. I want that with someone...I need it with someone.

rm_fuknsuk613 50M
3 posts
4/26/2011 9:36 am

 i completely understand! would like to chat with you. please leave me a message, thanks, TONY


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
4/26/2011 7:37 am

 Very true statement, and I think, even easier for a woman to find someone to have sex with than a man. Sleeping with someone does imply a longer term relationship and all that goes with it. But some people are lonely sleeping in the same bed with a "partner" unfortunately.


tresennui replies on 5/3/2011 5:49 am:
Loneliness with the person you share a bed with every night is a whole other situation.

horny196364 60M

4/26/2011 5:13 am

 love to chat with you sometime


tresennui replies on 4/26/2011 5:36 am:
Haven't we chatted before? Your profile pic looks familiar.

hornyNchi69 38M

4/26/2011 12:19 am

 That is true, it's not always easy to find someone that you can see yourself laying next to.


tresennui replies on 4/26/2011 5:53 am:
Sleeping with someone is more intimate than having sex in a peculiar kind of way....for some of us at least.

rufus61912 62M
54 posts
4/25/2011 10:38 pm

 tres u r right but u r a wonderful lady that will find that that someone


tresennui replies on 4/26/2011 5:55 am:
I keep looking and testing them out...yep...one of these days I might find a really good one the suits me. lol

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