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NSA - No More??
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NSA - No More?? I read so many profiles of people who want no strings attached and no drama. Is everyone so afraid of getting close to someone else? Afraid to commit..not necessarily long term, but even for an intense friendship? Have we all become selfish and reluctant to share ourselves in more than a physical sense with others? Well...I am soooo ready for some attachment and a little drama in my life. Bring on the strings  |
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8/2/2011 11:21 am |
Obviously you haven't read my profile or blogs. I guess from my perspective I have to beg the question, "How can there be no strings attached?" I suppose a ho and her john could get a way with it (apart from the $ string). Ya, I guess I know some men who talk as if its just an animal thing, but for me there is always an emotional connection. And I suppose most men who use to be that way, lost it because it is really hard to continue to seek when you get the proverbial door slammed in your face all the time. A woman shows up, groans and moans and sighs but then you never hear from her again. It's hard to continually become emotionally involved only to find yourself at the end of a blind alley. FWB LTR are good if both parties recognize that lives sometimes become busy and they also recognize that even a daily "Hello, how are things with you today" is a good thing when you can't meet for long intervals. There are real people on the other end of the line.
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First of all, Murax...hey u ltns around here.  It can be fun and erotic to sometimes just have sex and nothing more with someone. It is possible. The proverbial one night stand just to satisfy your curiousity of what it's like to have sex together. Done only once or twice...even if it's an amazing physical experience...can be enough. You know neither of you really have anything else in common and are honest enough to admit it and accept what you have together...only sex. A relationship like that isn't intended to last or be something you want on a regular basis.
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I've been at this for a while and have found that other than an out of town one night stand or a hooker there really is no such thing as NSA. And the SA sex generally is way better than the NSA. It can be fun and erotic to sometimes just have sex and nothing more with someone. It is possible. The proverbial one night stand just to satisfy your curiousity of what it's like to have sex together. Done only once or twice...even if it's an amazing physical experience...can be enough. You know neither of you really have anything else in common and are honest enough to admit it and accept what you have together...only sex. A relationship like that isn't intended to last or be something you want on a regular basis.
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Exactly why I am now looking for someone in a similar life situation as me now. Not that I still don't enjoy the occasional relatively meaningless romp with a fuck buddy or two, but after years of doing that I'm getting the urge to try something different. Not to say I am ready or capable of sustaining an emotional connection with someone. I'm just thinking it might be sort of nice to have someone in my life I want to spend a significant amount of time with. Not roll over after an orgasm and say..."I'm done...you can go home now." Someone I look forward to waking up with, have breakfast and then spend another day with.
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I've been at this for a while and have found that other than an out of town one night stand or a hooker there really is no such thing as NSA. And the SA sex generally is way better than the NSA.
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Craven Don't want to comment about your comment.........but gotta
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How about straps, cuffs, and ties? Seriously though, don't we all wish for some mutual emotional attachment in many areas of our lives? The trick is to recognize "real" when it is slapping you upside the head. Craven... good at giving, lousy at taking.
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Not to say I only want strings...but I think it would be nice to have a few....not talking ropes or silks  ....just might be nice feel some mutual emotional attachment.
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7/21/2011 4:32 am |
I agree whole heartily with you. Being friends makes everything better in life including playtime. How do you learn what someone likes or dislikes on a one night stand? It is much better to learn over time and then be able to drive your partner absolutely crazy with desire every time you are with them. Friendship also builds trust and allows both partners to open up and experiment if and when they want to. The emotional bond that is built over time just adds to any kind of relationship between two people. Keep to your standards..........
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I AM CONFIDENT YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR BUT BE CAREFUL THIS SITE IS FULL OF CRAZY SHIT ALTHOUGH SOME ARE COOL DROP A LINE SOMETIME
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I am confident you will find it again as well. Life is so much better when one has someone in their life with whom they can share things, whom they know will be there for them when they need someone, and with whom they can enjoy simple things as well as romantic things.  AKA The Clit Whisperer. 
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I can understand the need, or shall I say, want, to be in a more stable relationship compared to an NSA or FWB kind of thing. I see my life as a GOOD one, and yea, someone to share that with would be great. And no, not long term minded, but get to know someone, share many things with, be it intimate or not, and have a FRIEND I can call or just hang out with and ENJOY being with that person. and if a LTR develops, even better. And like you, I have yet to find that person in my life or circle of friends.
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Its interesting, there is ALWAYS drama, just depends on the degree. NSA is hard to do. I have more fwb's. It is more fun to have some connection with people, even if it isn't long term or going to lead anywhere beyond the bedroom. I don't think I could do anonymous sex. From you last post, did you have any debauchery? If not, I can help in that department....
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