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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Cumming?  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
9/13/2011 5:09 pm

Last Read:
8/4/2015 9:07 pm
Cumming?
Does this ever happen to you? Having incredible sex….raging hard on…but just can’t cum? Sometimes it’s the second or third go-round, occasionally it’s the first attempt. As a women I try my hardest (well, his hardest), use every trick I know (and I know many) to make it happen, but to no avail. I wonder how terribly frustrating it feels for a man...almost there, but just can’t cross the line.

Not that I’m complaining…a perpetual hard on isn’t the worse thing for a girl to deal with. However, I hate the thought of the man who’s satisfied me so completely not fully satisfied himself.

Tresennui
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keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
8/3/2015 4:31 pm

 I followed your link. The basements of BlogLand hold many wonders!

This can be quite frustrating when you are oh so close several times, but cannot cross over the edge.

Interesting post, thanks!

blog on!


tresennui replies on 8/3/2015 5:19 pm:
After all these years I'm in the basement?!?!

ticker58 59M  
53 posts
12/21/2011 10:54 pm

 Oh, yeah!!!


peter0819 64M
70 posts
12/19/2011 5:03 pm
    Quoting tresennui:
    turgidity...flacidity....if i recall you were always good with words.
Words good
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
12/18/2011 4:34 pm
    Quoting peter0819:
    With regard to the 'MASH' episode, I don't think the inability to cum was the issue...I suspect it was a lack of turgidity (over abundance of flacidity?) Now THAT's would be a major bummer all around.
turgidity...flacidity....if i recall you were always good with words.
Tresennui
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peter0819 64M
70 posts
12/18/2011 11:38 am
    Quoting tresennui:
    It happens to younger guys too....don't want you older guys to think it's just you.
With regard to the 'MASH' episode, I don't think the inability to cum was the issue...I suspect it was a lack of turgidity (over abundance of flacidity?) Now THAT's would be a major bummer all around.
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/28/2011 10:54 am
    Quoting BlackHeatLust:
    I think that actually happened to me one time?
Just once? lol....well that's not so bad then, is it?
Tresennui
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BlackHeatLust 54M

9/27/2011 10:41 pm

 I think that actually happened to me one time?

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itsag1 58M
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275 posts
9/19/2011 11:02 am

 Good joke above!

smile

bart


biggerjim3 59M  
50 posts
9/15/2011 7:58 am

 It happens to me and it doesn't really bother me at all. More pleasure for her. I've been with a girl who stressed about it and ones who didn't. I'd rather you not stress and have fun with it. As long as you're enjoying yourself and I'm still hard we're all good. I'll cum when I cum. I'm not worried about it so you shouldn't either is my attitude.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:15 pm
    Quoting  :
Men feel the same way don't they if the woman they're with can't quite get to that big O. They seem to feel there's something more than can do...often they can't. It can feel really good with no orgasm....sometimes....as long as it's not too often.
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:11 pm
    Quoting Phaedrus61616:
    It's only happened to me if I've had a few too many drinks, but I still enjoy it all the same. Plus I know it'll even better the next day, as I'm pre-loaded.
Let's just hope there's a next day. lol
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:10 pm
    Quoting packageman57:
    Yes, it happens and age is the enemy. Attitude helps, if you stress about it, it just makes things worse. Relaxing and enjoying the moments are the best remedies. I have always been a "one shot" guy so I always want to make sure my partner is satisfied.
Think it happens more with age, but as I said, it's not like you men aren't getting a nice erection so from my standpoint it's not terrible. But just as you want to make sure your partner's satisfied, so do I...so a woman does feel a little like maybe there is something better she should be doing.
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:07 pm
    Quoting nwburbsswm:
    Tres It DOES happen And YES I do enjoy it but DAMN some times I HATE it. I mean, everyone likes a good orgasm or cum. So when one REALLY enjoys the sex and then can not cum? That just sucks sometime
Yes, sometimes sucks and licks and does just about anything to make something happen.
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:04 pm
    Quoting ractr7:
    Aw just enjoy yourself...it's not important to cum EVERY time you do it.
As long as it feels good.....right?
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:04 pm
    Quoting curiousmale102:
    happened with me quite a few times and it sucked
Sucking is what most of us women do to try to resolve the problem.
Tresennui
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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/14/2011 6:03 pm
    Quoting ItsOK38:
    As a guy (read "me") gets older - it happens.

    Great joke from MASH (tv show) Alan Alda, "Was terrible, I couldn't ... " Partner, "couldn't what ?" Alan, "the big couldn't", partner, "it happens sometimes." Alan, "Ever happen to you ?" Partner, "Nope."
It happens to younger guys too....don't want you older guys to think it's just you.
Tresennui
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iwillfall4u58 66M
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9/13/2011 9:18 pm

 Never a problem on the first attempt. Rarely a problem on the second, the third, yes. But this is not frustrating to me. What I find terribly frustrating the last 20 years, is not being allowed to even make the second or third attempt. On those rare occassions, I achieve great satisfaction just knowing that you have been satisfied completely.


Phaedrus61616 63M
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9/13/2011 8:31 pm

 It's only happened to me if I've had a few too many drinks, but I still enjoy it all the same. Plus I know it'll even better the next day, as I'm pre-loaded.


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
9/13/2011 7:43 pm

 Yes, it happens and age is the enemy. Attitude helps, if you stress about it, it just makes things worse. Relaxing and enjoying the moments are the best remedies. I have always been a "one shot" guy so I always want to make sure my partner is satisfied.


nwburbsswm 61M
147 posts
9/13/2011 7:35 pm

 Tres It DOES happen And YES I do enjoy it but DAMN some times I HATE it. I mean, everyone likes a good orgasm or cum. So when one REALLY enjoys the sex and then can not cum? That just sucks sometime


ractr7 68M

9/13/2011 6:37 pm

 Aw just enjoy yourself...it's not important to cum EVERY time you do it.
Rich I love to eat pussy!


curiousmale102 51M
33 posts
9/13/2011 5:33 pm

 happened with me quite a few times and it sucked


ItsOK38 65M
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9/13/2011 5:30 pm

 As a guy (read "me") gets older - it happens.

Great joke from MASH (tv show) Alan Alda, "Was terrible, I couldn't ... " Partner, "couldn't what ?" Alan, "the big couldn't", partner, "it happens sometimes." Alan, "Ever happen to you ?" Partner, "Nope."


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