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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

What's With Being Discreet?  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
12/21/2011 9:55 pm

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3/7/2017 6:51 pm
What's With Being Discreet?
I don't get it. Even on profiles of unattached people I see "interested in a discreet relationship".

Why be discreet if you have no reason to hide what you're doing?

Is that because they just want to have sex and not be seen with you in public?



Just wondering............
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
rm_DrJLT1 71M
8 posts
10/28/2012 11:22 pm

 Discreet. I think that it may be for people who do not want the other person to draw unnessary attention to their relationship by loud vulgar , sexual conversation in a public place that could embarrass them at a later date.


peter0819 64M
70 posts
12/26/2011 2:56 pm

 Well E, if abnormal becomes the most common descriptor of adult relationships, it becomes 'normal'.
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


peter0819 64M
70 posts
12/22/2011 5:16 pm

 Besides some of the issues previously mentioned (i.e. kids, disingenuous bastards pretending to be unattached, etc...), perhaps there are those who believe that if they are seen in public having a good time with a woman, somehow this information will get back to their mom who will...1). assume grandchildren may finally be in the picture, and start using her already depleated retirement money to purchase baby clothes; 2). assume that you may have less then pure intentions, are in danger of succumbing to temptation of sex outside of wedlock and, thus, will be damned to hell; 3). will start worrying all over again that your older brother may be gay, since you have actually been seen enjoying the company of a lovely woman while he (she suspects) has not had a date...ever. If true, of course, this would mean your brother would be going to hell. This would destroy her which, being raised Catholic, would burden you with guilt that would infuse its poison into all aspects of your life, possibly forcing you to become a Trapist monk...or at least join the priesthood.

One can never underestimate the power of a mother to influence the psyche of an impressionable son. Look at Norman Bates, Billy in 'One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest', Beaver Cleaver, For God's Sake!!!

...or maybe not, they probably just want sex and not have to deal with any social interactions connected to a normal relationship between adults.

I agree, for what it's worth, that your new photo highlights your exceptionally attractive cleavage very well.
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


tresennui replies on 12/25/2011 6:10 pm:
Normal relationship between adults? What the heck are those?

packageman57 67M
1093 posts
12/22/2011 8:44 am

 Maybe they are not so "unattached"?
BTW, like the new cleavage pic....


tresennui replies on 12/25/2011 6:08 pm:
Haha many are attached, aren't they? However, there are some who are obviously not attached (and by the looks of things may seldom me) that tend to write that.

reallylovespam 55M
1212 posts
12/21/2011 11:21 pm

 well, in my instance, "discrete" is in reference to my children and is described as such in my profile. I'm not interested in parading women through the lives of my younger children, although I have absolutely no issue with being seen in public with a woman I am with.
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tresennui replies on 12/25/2011 6:06 pm:
Yes, being discrete so your kids are kept distant from your social life is one thing. But discreet in the context it's used in profiles generally refers to not being out in the open about a relationship...keeping it private. It's also often in the same paragraph as no strings attached.

sweetwillie667 56M

12/21/2011 11:09 pm

 Sounds like it to me.


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