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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Why Be Offended??  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
2/5/2012 3:00 pm

Last Read:
10/22/2014 10:52 am
Why Be Offended??
I read blogs here complaining about this
and other similar emails women get here. I just don't understand how anyone can be offended by anything on a site where there are thousands of pictures and videos depicting pretty much every variation of sex act imaginable, plus blogs, articles, groups, chat rooms, etc.

We are all here for different reasons. I am here to make friends...not just online friends, I use A F F as a social networking site. Others use it as a porn site. They're here to perv pictures, cams, videos and display themselves in ways they can't do anywhere else. Why be judgmental? Don't take it all so seriously If you're not interested ignore, block...do not reply.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
NiceItalianGuy61 62M
46 posts
8/18/2012 9:02 am

 Well said, you hit the nail on the head!


tresennui replies on 8/20/2012 10:19 pm:
The other day I read a blog from a woman complaining a man said he was attracted to her because she was a large woman. She was a BBW and indicated her body size was 'ample' on her profile....Go figure.......

rm_craven1on1 64M
682 posts
2/20/2012 1:05 pm

 So I should stop using the "wanna fuck?" line? Sometimes it works... sometimes I just don't need to ask. Sometimes I should just shut the fuck up.

Craven


tresennui replies on 3/1/2012 3:43 pm:
You need to ask?!?!?

peter0819 64M
70 posts
2/6/2012 5:54 pm
    Quoting gardenboy321:
    I do agree sweetie with the "why be offended?" part, and I would never ever send anything that vulgar to a woman, but what do you expect from men on a site like this? This is not eharmony. At least ya'll are getting emails! Lol
One person's vulgar is another's way of being flirtatious. It's all in the interpretation, isn't it?

Flirtatous? I suppose... I agree that since this site is what it is, a 'wanna fuck' is not out of bounds (even though it probably won't be effective and is a tad rude), but the phrase seems to leapfrog flirtation and get right to the bottom line. Someone who uses this line to 'flirt' is not likely to have been exposed to the concept of 'foreplay', or they weren't quite bright enough to get their head around that concept. To invoke John Cleese's schoolmaster character from the 'Meaning of Life', while teaching middle-school students sex education, after asking a student what does one do first when trying to arouse a woman (that was an unacceptably long sentance). The student said 'rub her clitoris?' To which Cleese responded, 'Oh, that's right! Just stampede to the clitoris!' 'Wanna fuck' is a step beyond that.
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


trucking0_13 61M

2/6/2012 10:55 am

 love to chat with you sometime


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
2/5/2012 8:01 pm

 I try not to take much too seriously. Maybe that's a defense mechanism, but, for me, it works. And I try not to be too judgmental. Sometimes its hard to do that, but as I get older, I find it easier. Chat soon.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
2/5/2012 7:23 pm

 I do agree sweetie with the "why be offended?" part, and I would never ever send anything that vulgar to a woman, but what do you expect from men on a site like this? This is not eharmony. At least ya'll are getting emails! Lol
Thoughts from the Garden...


tresennui replies on 2/5/2012 7:39 pm:
One person's vulgar is another's way of being flirtatious. It's all in the interpretation, isn't it?

I've tried eharmony...there are plenty horny, pervs there too...only they either try to hide it or are embarrassed by it.

JONN4CPLS 56M

2/5/2012 5:41 pm

 Hi Tresennui,

I'm sure that women get that all the time one here. Like you I'm on here as a social chat, new friends that are down to earth and have a sense of humor. There are still many good people on here but over the years it's become more challenging.


tresennui replies on 2/5/2012 7:35 pm:
What do you consider a not good person? Just because I man "enthusiastically" emails a women whose profile picture shows her tits or other intimate body parts doesn't make him a bad person, does it?

AlvinBooth 70M
Ask me for a photo
5468 posts
2/5/2012 5:25 pm

 Wow !!! I've read a lot of blogs and I think I can honestly say it's the first time I've read one like yours. You .. "Get It".

AB
No Bozos


tresennui replies on 2/5/2012 7:37 pm:
Thank you and because I "get it" I've gotten it from some really good people I've met here....with no drama involved.

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