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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Does Size Matter  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
4/8/2013 5:14 pm

Last Read:
7/28/2013 8:36 pm
Does Size Matter
Not thinking about the size of a penis....at the moment......but body size in general. As a "larger" woman I tend to feel extra large (well, fat) when I'm with a thin man. I prefer the feel of someone who I can snuggle with and be enveloped by him. I like to be the inside one when spooning. Not someone too large either. Positioning is limited if you both have big bellys. If a man is too wide (remember I'm not referring to penis size ), it's difficult to straddle him comfortably or wrap my legs around him.

We all have our preferences. What is your perfect fit.....and why?


Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
5/2/2013 11:03 am

 tresennui
"... why do men seem to think Victoria Secret models, movie and porn stars with extremely thin bodies are so hot?"

Many of these women have an extreme waist to hip ratio. For me, hips are what make women sexy and these women exaggerate that feature. Conversely, I don't find narrow-waisted women as appealing, e.g. pro volleyballers, distance runners, etc.

As for fit, I simply prefer a woman who weighs less than me. She can be taller or shorter, it doesn't matter. As long as she doesn't "feel" bigger, it's all good.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


LookininSpfld181 69M
5 posts
4/28/2013 4:57 pm

 Well, as your original post showed, the fit of jigsaw puzzle pieces is the goal.
As Ms Ennui said, when it fits, it fits!


tresennui replies on 4/30/2013 5:11 pm:
Nothing like a good fit!

InYourWay 56M
107 posts
4/26/2013 9:34 pm

 I wouldn't say I'm picky; I don't honestly think anybody is when it comes down to it. I mean at the end of the day an interesting, engaging personality that you meet at a bar/party/workplace/blind date etc., who is horny for you is a person who is horny for you! If they are physically outside your normal experience then its an adventure!

That said, my personal preference has always been a little chubbier than your average made-for-TV ideal. Not morbid, just a decent amount of meat on the bones. If I bring a pizza home for dinner, I want us both to plow into it!

So...what do you like on your pizza?


tresennui replies on 4/30/2013 5:11 pm:
What do I like? Need you ask? Sausage

packageman57 67M
1093 posts
4/9/2013 10:10 am

 I try to make everything work within the body's constraints. Its for mutual satisfaction.


tresennui replies on 4/9/2013 8:35 pm:
Mutual satisfaction is the ultimate goal.

2TeachMe1964 60F
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3608 posts
4/8/2013 5:29 pm

 I love the feel of a muscular man. I'm not little, either. I love to feel that safe, protected, dominated feel. And, I'm sorry, but he has to be able to back it up. Part of that is a physical component of size and strength.


tresennui replies on 4/9/2013 8:31 pm:
Not that a thinner man isn't nice to have around.

PMogra 33M

4/8/2013 5:21 pm

 I would have to say a larger curvier women. A full body for me is a real women


tresennui replies on 4/9/2013 8:29 pm:
Full body? Another way of saying "overly curvaceous". Just joking...I am not offended. I find it amusing that people refrain from saying overweight or even fat.

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