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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Try to be polite...but  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
5/5/2013 5:07 pm

Last Read:
8/17/2013 7:44 pm
Try to be polite...but
Why is it that when I tell some men that I am not interested in communicating or meeting them they keep asking over and over again? They don't know me as anything but a woman who is rejecting them so why would they want to be with me? I can't have much respect for a man who comes across as desperate. And he certainly doesn't become more appealing the more he asks.

Even though they claim it isn't, it's difficult not to think this is the answer


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ntyguyinchi2 58M
13 posts
5/21/2013 6:12 pm

 you have never told me no lol


tedscott40 60M
Ask me for a photo
2550 posts
5/9/2013 8:20 am

 These men should realize that a firm no is a favor to them. It prevents the man from wasting his time and yours. My guess is the guys pursuing you, despite your obvious lack of interest, have weak social skills. Also, a man with more options would just move on.
Ted


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
5/7/2013 9:54 am

 It's disturbing. When you receive a polite "no thanks," I think most sane people realize it's time to let go and move on. Even a lack of response should be viewed as a "no" and your cue to look elsewhere.

Most sane guys realize that pestering, badgering or pleading only makes them look less attractive, so we're talking about some sick pups.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
5/6/2013 1:59 pm

 Well, yeah.....LOL....but no is no, (trying not to sound desperate)...LOL....


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
5/5/2013 8:39 pm

 Why indeed.
Perhaps this approach eventually works with some women? It's one possible explanation at least.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/5/2013 5:28 pm

 tres had the same problem on this site. People can't read your blog. It doesn't matter you tell them your not meeting they still are wanting to meet you. The two letter word NO has to be used firmly to these folks. Only way to get across how your feeling. Good luck! You are not alone.
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couple4fun5963 54M/64F
14 posts
5/5/2013 5:18 pm

 yes.


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