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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Pressure to Perform  

tresennui 69F  
2840 posts
6/19/2013 8:34 pm

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2/2/2019 5:37 pm
Pressure to Perform


Lux Alptraum, CEO of Fleshbot, stated, "The pairing of oral skill with manliness makes cunnilingus less about the woman receiving it than about the man performing it" and "the woman's pleasure more about validating the man's skill than about the woman herself having a good time."

I read that quote not too long ago and I had to say I understand and agree with it to some extent. You read it in profiles, emails and find it with men I am with. They profess that it brings them great pleasure to pleasure women, even more important then being on the receiving end. They are determined to make women cum through oral before they would even consider penetrating her or even letting her give a blow job (nothing wrong with 69, is there?)

I feel there is way to much pressure on men to satisfy women. A phenomenon instigated by porn, women's lib or their own egos...to prove their masculinity by their ability to make sure the woman they are with has an orgasm...and omg...if he can make her squirt!!

Not that it's something I'm complaining about that much. Just bringing up the topic for discussion. I can't really object to a man wanting to make sure I have an orgasm. But, sometimes they tend to go down before they've stimulated the rest of the body in pursuit of the ultimate goal. If it's only clitoral stimulation and maybe a finger or two inserted in my pussy to bring me to orgasm (which does work) I can do that myself a lot easier, faster and without the need to carry on a conversation before or after.

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packageman57 67M
1093 posts
6/20/2013 7:46 am

 Best if there isn't a "game plan" other than getting together. I try and take cues by listening (moans gasps and words) and I actually don't mind following directions...LOL....


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