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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Flaunting It  

tresennui 69F  
2840 posts
1/18/2014 3:43 pm

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6/11/2016 12:46 pm
Flaunting It


Lately, in the chatroom I frequent, there are some couples who seem to flaunt their relationships. One half of some of these couples are married. I am not one to judge someone who cheats, but I certainly wouldn't flaunt it. I was always of the opinion that those type of relationships should be even more discreet than others.

It may seem so by my last few blogs, but flings with married men are not something I think about all the time. I really don't. The subject just seems to come up in various circumstances lately. For me, these relationships have been few, and I certainly don't let it be known who they are. Even if we were both regulars in our local chatroom, we have never bragged about or talked publicly about out times together. (I don't even talk publicly about who I have hooked up with regardless of their marital status).

Even though many others in the chatroom say they would never go out with someone married they are completely accepting of these couples and encourage their behavior. There are comments about what great couples they are, finding their talk of their latest liaisons sweet and amusing. I suspect many are envious too, since they are often feeling very lonely, horny and unloved.

I feel it's one thing to banter about your sex life in a off-hand kind of way and discuss the merits of oral sex vs penetration and opinions on pubic hair. It's another to make your private encounters public.

For those of you who frequent the chatrooms does it annoy you too? Do you, would you do it? You also have to take into consideration that if the relationship doesn't work out, it makes for awkward situations and unnecessary drama for others.
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packageman57 67M
1093 posts
1/20/2014 12:32 pm

 I have never been one to kiss and tell. In my mind, its best to keep the details of encounters to one's self. If you want to talk in more generalized terms and thoughts, that's okay. Even going into details about a specific time with someone is okay, as long as the someone is not named.


curiousg0123 57M  
90 posts
1/19/2014 7:00 am

 Idk... I'm not one to advertise the connections I've enjoyed, however everyone's a little different. Some may find publicizing their exploits erotic. Some may do it simply in an attempt to legitamize their lifestyle status. To each their own I guess.


IamtheKel 54M

1/18/2014 4:34 pm

 don't you think some people view sex different than others though? Some people are prudish, some private, some curious, some adventurous, know what I mean?


tresennui replies on 1/18/2014 4:45 pm:
It's not about the sex, it's about talking about their relationship to make sure everyone knows. Those who discuss are often the same that complain about the "drama" here, yet they are the ones perpetuating it.

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