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How important is oral sex?
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How important is oral sex? |
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I enjoy oral sex way too much to have it missing from our sex life. I would definitely be missing important part of sex
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I could only vote on one, so I picked "I may not be faithful", and no, I wouldn't be satisfied without oral, which does include both giving and receiving.
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Considering I am a veteran and many of my friends are veterans, quite a few of them have been injured. Go to a vet hospital and see a time or two. There are men that cannot perform oral nor can they function from someone giving them oral. This is a small group, but it happens. I think it would be quite horrible for these wonderful men to be left out of contact with others due to that not being part of the program. I have seen a few divorces, and I have seen others surpass all things that are put in their way outside of sex. People don't realize that if you have lost movement in your neck or upper body then oral isn't going to happen quite that easy if at all. I am thrilled that their partners didn't all abandon them based on they couldn't get oral sex or sex at all. To some it is vital, I get that, but there are those that can have sex as the penis works but not the rest of their bodies for oral. I have definitely learned that a partnership or marriage shouldn't be based on just oral sex. Make sure if it is you let your partner know this and God forbid you are yourself never in an accident or have something happen to you that you suddenly can't perform. There are some reasons people don't think of when they look around. I am fine without oral. Having a wonderful partner that loves me and I love her is far more important to me after what I have seen and been through.
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I personally don't give a shit if I received a blow job. I prefer to give. I have found as I aged that sitting on my ass and doing nothing is no fun for me at all. Yeah, it got me off, but I got a bigger thrill out of watching the women squirm and dance on the bed when I did it to them. I wouldn't cheat as I prefer to have all of someone not just a blowjob. Cuddling and sharing my life means more to me.
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Oral is extremely important to most people, that is a fact. Unfortunately people don't realize there is much more than can be done that brings great pleasures other than oral. I admit openly I am one that doesn't give oral, but by the same right I never ask for oral as most feel if they give it the one giving it must have it in return as if they gave it just to get it. I believe people should do sex acts because they want to not because they feel obligated or pressured and definitely not just to receive an act. I have never had anyone cheat on me because I didn't give oral, and they have said I do some wonderful things that they totally enjoyed in its place. I find this a bit of a misleading question because you are leaving out factors other than someone liking or not liking it. How many women stopped giving oral to their husbands because their husbands took a bj and did nothing for the women at all?? How many men wanted a bj and just a bj and nothing else?? Most women don't get cunnilingus and then get to leave the bedroom where as men get a bj and do get up and go. How man women stopped giving oral to their husbands because they got forceful and started grabbing women by the back of their heads and forcing their dicks in further? There are those that will enjoy it, but I know quite a few that don't want to have a man pushing their heads down like that. I know personally 3 women that stopped for that reason specifically and when they confronted their husbands they didn't care. It was about what they wanted and not what they could give. I don't think oral is about just oral. I think bringing in the relationship and the factors that are within it make or break something. Definitely if it is something vitally important a partner needs to know. If it is something they don't do then move along. Cheating is never the answer it only hurts people, but many people have been hurt by how oral has been used on them or against them. I would like to think that if someone was r4ped that men wouldn't be forceful and insist that they do it anyway. It isn't a matter of you weren't the attacker, it is something a bit more rooted than that. Last note, because a person states they don't give oral doesn't mean they won't do it at all. It can also mean that they are not announcing it so people don't just rush as I have seen men do to women that give it thinking she gives bjs and likes it so therefore she sucks everyone. When in a loving and caring relationship two people can work through many things. Because a person cares they can leap through many problems and work things out, but that takes patience and most people don't have patience. They want it now and without work. No one should be made to do anything they don't enjoy or feel guilty because they won't do certain sex acts. There are coprophagia people and emetophelia people that think what they do is great and they love it. Not all people want to eat feces or play in vomit. Each person's idea of what is wonderful changes with each person.  No judgements, just showing what is normal to one may not be to another and neither is wrong. Find someone that the two of you match. Best of luck to all!!
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Gotta have the oral, both giving and receiving.
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Take oral out of it, and there goes almost the whole foreplay out the window.
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Oral sex to me is a very important part of sex. It's a very intimate act and a pleasure you should be willing to give to your partner.
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