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why i am on a sex site  

rm_velvttouch 54F
2731 posts
4/18/2008 1:30 pm

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1/2/2010 8:36 am

why i am on a sex site


I wrote this post in regard to someone else's blog post. love her stuff [post 1370674] but she basically played on somthing i get asked all the time.

why am i on a sex site?

lol...yes this is a sex site and i am not looking for love true love but the problem is there are no websites for dating in alternate lifestyles. at least i haven't found any. so for someone like me who doesn't believe in or practice monogamy.. match does not go over well and i don't go over well there...lol hell they probably wouldn't even take me. when i have been on more conventional dating/relationship sites i don't get any mail...lol

and there are liars and cheaters on every kind of website. to the point that i had to put on myspace not to contact me unless you were bringing your significant other if you were in a relationship..lol

i also read a blog about a couple who met on here and are having a very nice relationship...

"i thought he was different. i thought he liked me for me and not just sex. why cant i find a good man here? isnt anybody "real"? why are all the guys just after sex? "

so

some people are different and some are the same but more important is the people that are different for you

maybe he did like you for you but since sex wasn't included he wanted someone he liked for them that would put out..lol

you can find a good man anywhere

being real is over rated. i am real and only the people that love me like it...lol and i am ok with that.

and guys need to spread their seed. it is a biological imparative. just some of them temper it with ethics and morals...lol

rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
4/18/2008 7:52 pm

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i don't know what love true love is.. i have had long significant relationships in my life and i loved them but i don't believe in the one and only...lol i think you can love may people in many ways and that many people associate "true love" with only one person.

the best way to describe it is when i have it i will know it...lol. i think some one else blogged about that maybe dosrev palaver...

plus i am unwilling to upset my daughters life so for the next ten years it makes it kind of hard to have a significant realtionship...lol

and i would agree with what you are saying about this site but the men who buy the marketing ask me "if you are not looking for sex then why are you here"...lol

and i am not so sure about the less of them lying.. maybe, maybe not. but i agree that you can find liars everywhere. i find that if a person is willing to lie to their wife, they are just as willing to lie to me...lol

and i dont know why it is a big deal but i hypothesize that since a portion of the men arn't looking for adult friends but sex that they have a problem with finding friends that don't agree to sex...lol


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
4/18/2008 8:07 pm

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I know you guys are so cute...lol love your writing and miss his... unless he is writing some of your recent posts and i would love to see him as a catholic school girl in a sex shop...lol

love the lips btw. i have a friend that would call them number 13 cock sucking..lol no offense meant that is just how he describes nice full lips and don't ask me what the number 13 is for...


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
4/18/2008 8:13 pm

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You and dh have great blogs. i suspect if we didn't live on opposite ends of the country we could have a mighty fun barbeque...lol.

and i might have stuck the kid in the closet instead of the other way around...lol although some people might find that alarming (you would have to read her blog to understand)... a walk in closet is just a small room... i once had a bathroom you could put a bed in ...

it's late and i am babbling...


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