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be yourself...  

rm_velvttouch 55F
2731 posts
8/3/2008 8:51 pm

Last Read:
2/22/2009 6:10 am

be yourself...


audio slave be yourself

Someone falls to pieces
Sleeping all alone
Someone kills the pain
Spinning in the silence
She finally drifts away
Someone gets excited
In a chapel yard
And catches a bouquet
Another lays a dozen
White roses on a grave
Yeah...

And to be yourself is all that you can do
Hey...
To be yourself is all that you can do
Someone finds salvation in everyone
Another only pain
Someone tries to hide himself
Down inside himself he prays
Someone swears his true love
Until the end of time
Another runs away
Separate or united
Healthy or insane

And to be yourself is all that you can do(all that you can do)
Yeah..
To be yourself is all that you can do(all that you can do)

To be yourself is all that you can do(all that you can do)
Hey...
Be yourself is all that you can do

even when you've paid enough
been put upon or been held up
with every single memory of
the good or bad, faces of luck
don't lose any sleep tonight
i'm sure everything will end up alright
you may win or lose

But to be yourself is all that you can do
Yeah...
To be yourself is all that you can do

Ohhh...
To be yourself is all that you can do(all that you can do)
Ohhh...
To be yourself is all that you can do(all that you can do)
To be yourself is all that you can--
Be yourself is all that you can--
Be yourself is all that you can dooooooohoooo

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I come from a big italian family.. very very nosy..lol

I have been split from my x now for 4 or 5 years. i loose track it really isn't that important to me. and most family gatherings some one or several someones asks me about my romantic life. it is surprising how well you can use blunt honesty as a shield...lol

the conversation goes something like this

them:so are you dating any one

me: well no you know men aren't like they used to be and neither are woman for that matter...

which to a 50- 60 year old is shocking...lol and they start to sputter...

or

them: you see that smile on your face if you had a man...(trails off to imply that i need one to be happy all the time)

me: i have a vibrator i can put this smile on my face anytime i want...

which to a 50- 60 year old is shocking...lol and they start to sputter...

or

them: you have chaps and a leather does that make you a motorcycle chick

me: i have whips and chains to. if chaps make me a motorcycle chick what do they make me?

which to a 50- 60 year old is shocking...lol and they start to sputter...

Now i actually have whips and chains which i rarely use.

i have chaps that i rarely use.

i am rarely attracted to women and even more rarely act on it.

do any of those things make me one specific thing to the exclusion of any of the other things i could possibly be? I had someone once tell me i wasn't separate things but rather multifaceted. I rather like being compared to a gem...lol

i am more than just the sum of my parts. i just don't like to be labeled as one thing. all i can do is be myself. i am not a label. i am me.

UPFORFUN710 53M
324 posts
8/4/2008 3:58 am

The 50-60 year olds in my family must be harder to shock then yours. Usually they are the one that shock me. Nothing catches them at a loss for words.


rm_velvttouch 55F
762 posts
8/4/2008 11:58 am

    Quoting UPFORFUN710:
    The 50-60 year olds in my family must be harder to shock then yours. Usually they are the one that shock me. Nothing catches them at a loss for words.
i think this particular person just likes to goad me to see what i will say...lol


rm_velvttouch 55F
762 posts
8/4/2008 11:59 am

    Quoting thickmale33:
    I hate being labeled...and to protect myself, more often than not I just close myself off to a lot of people. The less they know, the less chance of being labeled. Probably not the healthiest thing I can do for myself...
i don't like it so much myself. but really what difference does it make what they think


rm_Thrantor2 51M/54F
283 posts
8/5/2008 7:16 am

Hehehe... One of the best responses I've ever heard to the "you need a man to make you smile" comments was.

"Why would I need a man when I have something that can last until I want it to stop and doesn't snore?"

Hehehe... One of my old college friends to a guy hitting on her in a bar. Hehehe...

I get that same kind of shocked look when I tell people I'm poly. Just that kinda... "But that doesn't work." Or "Are you a mormon?" being from texas hasn't helped recently with all that FLCS bullshit in Texas.


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