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everyone is judgmental about something  

rm_velvttouch 54F
2731 posts
2/21/2009 9:53 am

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everyone is judgmental about something


people are judgemental period. i go to a male strip club. they put out a lot less then the women. for a tip you get a little feel and maybe a kiss or bent over and pounded. women strippers for a tip will basically strip you almost naked on stage. feel you up, lick you, stick there stuff in you face. it is def more hands on. you would think the women that go to a male strip club would be open not jealous non judgemental but no. they are terrible, jealous, catty. post stuff on the internet about the strippers and the customers. think that someone if they are paying to play with their body that some how that person belongs to them.

I am single. i don't mess around with married men unless their wives know or are involved. and yeah i am judgemental about cheaters of either sex. because they are cheaters and liars. not because i have a problem with people having sex when they are married or in a relationship. i actually think people that are committed should be having sex with others.

SexualDesirz 51F

2/21/2009 10:30 am

I find that odd velvtouch. Haven't seen u in a long time girl. welcome back to the blogs!

You would think it would be just the opposite, wouldn't you? because surely men can defend themselves if a woman got too "over the top".
I didn't know that women were catty in a male strip joint. But i tell you, I've only been to one, it was the famous ones, Chippendales'. forget their name. Anyhow, they really revealed NOTHING you would not see on a beach. Great bodies though.
WOOHOO.. Very nicely built & hung. You cud put dollars into their thongs but I don't remember them letting us touch their privates or anytihng of that nature.

I do remember feeling though, and I was quite young at the time, that I would of preferred to the ONLY woman in the room ALONE with this hot guy!!! hahah. Not surrounded by 40 or 50 crazy women instead!
Not for me.. the strip clubs.. too much of a tease. Now.. if only they'd allow us to be "allowed" upstairs for some action with these hunks. That might be a different story. Hmmmm..

They allow that stuff for the guys to do with the girl strippers, don't they? Like a private room thing?
We are definitely discriminated against when it comes to male strip clubs. I want to see a restaurant, like Hooters, only with hot young, well built guys wearing little to serve us women drinks & good food!


campbound2 54M

2/21/2009 10:34 am

So tell me Velvt, have you walked a mile in their shoe's? Have you any idea of thier pain or torment, or is it that that they should just leave for the sake of sex.


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
2/21/2009 12:41 pm

    Quoting SexualDesirz:
    I find that odd velvtouch. Haven't seen u in a long time girl. welcome back to the blogs!

    You would think it would be just the opposite, wouldn't you? because surely men can defend themselves if a woman got too "over the top".
    I didn't know that women were catty in a male strip joint. But i tell you, I've only been to one, it was the famous ones, Chippendales'. forget their name. Anyhow, they really revealed NOTHING you would not see on a beach. Great bodies though.
    WOOHOO.. Very nicely built & hung. You cud put dollars into their thongs but I don't remember them letting us touch their privates or anytihng of that nature.

    I do remember feeling though, and I was quite young at the time, that I would of preferred to the ONLY woman in the room ALONE with this hot guy!!! hahah. Not surrounded by 40 or 50 crazy women instead!
    Not for me.. the strip clubs.. too much of a tease. Now.. if only they'd allow us to be "allowed" upstairs for some action with these hunks. That might be a different story. Hmmmm..

    They allow that stuff for the guys to do with the girl strippers, don't they? Like a private room thing?
    We are definitely discriminated against when it comes to male strip clubs. I want to see a restaurant, like Hooters, only with hot young, well built guys wearing little to serve us women drinks & good food!
now you see it depends on where you go..lol i have been to toronto canada to one of the gay male strip clubs. they only let women in one day a week but a girl if she picks the right guy can get just about anything she wants in a little booth that looks kind of like dressing room. but that is not the norm. some clubs have complete no touching and others you can touch whatever the dancer lets you (as long as no one sees) and in canada it is nude. which is nice...lol


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
2/21/2009 12:46 pm

    Quoting campbound2:
    So tell me Velvt, have you walked a mile in their shoe's? Have you any idea of thier pain or torment, or is it that that they should just leave for the sake of sex.
hey you know who hasn't been in a bad relationship. you have to decide what kind of person you want to be. do you want to be a cheater and a liar or do you want to be honest with the person you are having a relationship with, tell them your needs are not being met, go to counseling and reach some sort of compromise or hey yeah when you have tried everything and it doesn't work ...then leave..

and before you say you don't have a choice. that is bull. we make our own prisons. if you stay it is because you choose to stay.


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
2/21/2009 12:50 pm

    Quoting  :

ok hello. first of all you have been censored to the max so i can't even see what you posted and second of all even if a picture say a thousand words i would rather have the words....lol

since your profile says you have a huge cock i assume that is what you are trying to show me. well darlin....a huge cock is a complete turn off... can you say ow!


oraladventurer4u 69M
39 posts
2/22/2009 5:38 am

"i actually think people that are committed should be having sex with others."

I wish I could meet a woman who really thought that. I don't have that issue right now since I'm not lucky enough to have someone that special. But even after meeting a woman here on Local Adult Companion who said she loved playing and having a FWB relationship. I find them wanting exclusives. I have never had the pleasure, but the thought that I could have an emotionally committed relationship but still be able to a little sexual variety occasionally is so appealing. Maybe I'm just too kinky, but I have so many fantasies and desires that I doubt one person could have each and every one of them too. I'd like to explore my desires and fantasies with someone who truly has the same just for the sensual and sexual experience without strings, and still have a partner with emotional security day to day.
And I find it hot thinking about my partners having other adventures. I briefly had a partner who had another lover for about two weeks once till he wanted a commitment from her. He did not want to share.
My lady and I had the best sex of our relationship during that very brief time. She was incredibly horny 24/7. She was insatiable and adventurous. She was in heat. I loved it. But she soon went back to being her conservative, mild mannered self soon after her extra curricular activities ended.
But alas such a relationship is a dream, I don't even have a partner now, yet alone a partner willing to "share" and "play with others."


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
2/22/2009 6:36 am

    Quoting oraladventurer4u:
    "i actually think people that are committed should be having sex with others."

    I wish I could meet a woman who really thought that. I don't have that issue right now since I'm not lucky enough to have someone that special. But even after meeting a woman here on Local Adult Companion who said she loved playing and having a FWB relationship. I find them wanting exclusives. I have never had the pleasure, but the thought that I could have an emotionally committed relationship but still be able to a little sexual variety occasionally is so appealing. Maybe I'm just too kinky, but I have so many fantasies and desires that I doubt one person could have each and every one of them too. I'd like to explore my desires and fantasies with someone who truly has the same just for the sensual and sexual experience without strings, and still have a partner with emotional security day to day.
    And I find it hot thinking about my partners having other adventures. I briefly had a partner who had another lover for about two weeks once till he wanted a commitment from her. He did not want to share.
    My lady and I had the best sex of our relationship during that very brief time. She was incredibly horny 24/7. She was insatiable and adventurous. She was in heat. I loved it. But she soon went back to being her conservative, mild mannered self soon after her extra curricular activities ended.
    But alas such a relationship is a dream, I don't even have a partner now, yet alone a partner willing to "share" and "play with others."
tell me about it. sounds like we are both chasing the same impossible dream. although i know it exists. i just haven't found it..


rm_velvttouch 54F
762 posts
2/22/2009 6:38 am

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now why doesn't that surprise me...lol but then you know as well as i do that if they like you and trust you that they will do whatever they feel like or feel like letting you.. and thank god for alcohol...lol you just reminded me of another story to add..


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