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Where's the luv?
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Where's the luv? Someone sent me an email today asking me to let him know when I was interested in more than sex. All righty then, that will be about NEVER. What kind of crazy woman would look for love on a sex site? Not this crazy woman. A good lay, sure. It's what I expect to find on a site such as this. But love? Give me a fucking break. If I wanted love (which I don't by the way) I would try one of those love match sites. Can think of three off the top of my head. Don't have a membership at any. The thing is, I have tried love. Didn't work out too well. But sex, both parties walk away happy. Everybody gets what they want and doesn't have to deal with who was supposed to pick up milk at the grocery store. What's wrong with signing onto a sex site and looking for sex? Better yet, what kind of psycho signs onto a sex site and looks for love? Stranger things have happened I suppose, but not for me and I plan to keep it that way. So dear suitor, take your love and shove it where the sun don't shine. Bring it into the light of day around me and watch me disappear. My name isn't phantom for nothing you know. If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning. |
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1/10/2008 3:56 pm |
Well BP is totally right about what she is saying. Though my grandma said that men use love to get a fuck and Women use fucking to get love (well..i guess she didnt used the "f"-word)  Perhaps he just wanted to be polite..normally Men on such sites mutate to Neandertals writing "You Woman, me Man...ride this" while most women do expect some talking / writing before the fornictation. Now we Men are trapped..one one side we have our Stone Age Ancestors sitting on our left shoulder saying "You Man, you take Woman to Cave, doing BingoBongo" and on the other side the Editor from Mens Health saying "You have to do some witty talking first...ask her about her mood"....  Not too easy too handle when all the blood needed for thinking is now in more souther regions of the male body. So we fall back on stereotypes like "Woman want security, woman want love, woman are not so simple-minded like we are"..and then you will get such things like the guy wrote  If i ask her if she is searching for more then sex then she might think that i am different. Well...at least with BP this Plan backfired...Ps.: Love the way BP explained why she is here....keep it up Honey !
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1/11/2008 5:51 pm |
Your name isn't Phantom for nothing?.....Is that so?...... Well guess what? My name isn't Phantom for nothing either.  Phantom 
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1/14/2008 11:04 am |
Phantom, it is strange that a male would seek a relationship when just having sex is being offered. It was a weak come on.
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1/14/2008 10:15 pm |
Phantom, it is strange that a male would seek a relationship when just having sex is being offered. It was a weak come on.  Dude, I am amazed by how few comments you have made on the blogs. Hmmmm, let me see now, you made your first blog comment on this very post and I wonder why  Keep it up tiger, there maybe hope for you yet..  Phantom
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1/15/2008 10:07 am |
Phantom... Frankly, I'm grateful you've written on this topic. Some days I end up asking myself "Isn't Local Adult Companion a sex site, rather than a find-your-mate site?" I'm amazed once in awhile (my communication here is still pretty limited) when I run across a woman whose offended because I'm NOT looking for a long term relationship. Since I still can't look at others profiles, I really pay attention to what I CAN see, and try not to contact anyone who doesn't match me with at least 3 stars...and most of the time only 4 or 5. By the way, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to get laid at all without having all the hassles of a relationship. Some of my best friends have been women I've slept with...no strings...which has allowed us to relax and be ourselves without worry of ruining a relationship. I'm on your side...and so what if I wanna get laid!??!!!
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Do bear in mind that I am not your typical woman either. My ex used to tell me that I thought more like a man. Not sure where I get that, but it works for me. Emotional entanglements just aren't for me. I am remembering my three F's for the time being. (For those that don't know what they are... Find 'em, Fuck 'em, FORGET 'EM.) Not sure why guys find it so easy to fall in love with me... Could it be that they are more in love with the pursuit of trying to tie me down? I suppose so, but what would be the point? They'd just end up hating me later. At least this way I don't have to deal with them in the morning. If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
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1/17/2008 9:06 pm |
Do bear in mind that I am not your typical woman either. My ex used to tell me that I thought more like a man. Not sure where I get that, but it works for me. Emotional entanglements just aren't for me. I am remembering my three F's for the time being. (For those that don't know what they are... Find 'em, Fuck 'em, FORGET 'EM.) Not sure why guys find it so easy to fall in love with me... Could it be that they are more in love with the pursuit of trying to tie me down? I suppose so, but what would be the point? They'd just end up hating me later. At least this way I don't have to deal with them in the morning.  Find 'em, fuck 'em and FORGET 'EM?...is that how we men are supposed to think? Is that what goes on in a man's mind in regards to women? I am just playing dumb...I know why men find you so easy to fall in "love" with. But I must warn you, it isn't love...they are not falling in love with you, it's something else that they are falling in love with. You see, we men are incapable of falling in love. All we want to do is fuck. Love has no meaning for us. I’ll tell you exactly what goes on in a man’s mind. When we see a woman that we desire, the only thing that we think of is fucking her...nothing more...nothing less, to us, she is nothing more than a lump of flesh for us to jump on. All we want to do is fuck her and then discard her and move on to the next one fuck.  The rest, means nothing to us, it is just bunch of bullshit we pull for the sole purpose of getting laid.Phantom
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1/18/2008 2:31 pm |
I guess I prefer the "two F" theory...find em and fuck em! I don't mind return engagements at all...there's really quite a lot of appeal to exploring and expanding a SEXUAL relationship with a partner, which usually takes a little time. I've never had trouble moving on when the time is right, for both of us. Sometimes she moves on, sometimes I do. It's fairly unrealistic to think that you can discover all of the great hidden sexual talents a partner has with just one or two get-togethers. And there's nothing wrong with liking to fuck someone in the unique way that works for the two of you. Besides, concurrent variety enhances all relationships, in my experience. Also, rather than getting caught up in comparing partners and judging them against each other, I find it incredibly satisfying to celebrate each one's uniqueness. I've never had a problem with emotions messing things up. Am I a whore?
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