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Blogs > AK_Snowflake > Growing up Kelly

Tales of rejection  

AK_Snowflake 48F
788 posts
8/9/2016 7:42 pm
Tales of rejection

It's been awhile since I have dated and I am here to report, it still sucks. Men are confusing (women too, but I am talking men today). I don't understand showing a HUGE amount of interest only to disappear.
We had instant chemistry, we had the same sense of humor, same likes/dislikes and so on. We went out a few times, fun each time, no sex and then POOF. This was after asking me out for today, I said yes, no solid plans made so I send a message asking if still on; when and where.
Radio silence.
I don't get it. I understand too busy, I understand life happens, I understand just not feeling like going out, hell I even understand met someone else. What I don't understand is being an adult and just saying so.
Are people that inconsiderate?

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/10/2016 11:25 am
    Quoting open24two:
    Well he could be not interested or.., this is a guy we are talking about here. He may just not be communicating at the moment? If you truly have an interest in him, find him tell him and fuck him till he never wants to stray... I'm going to go ahead and tell you men will be interested/faithful to you, if you give them sex every time they ask and make it new... I'm not talking missionary every time. Grab his cock and take him as soon as you see him that will get his attention, stroke his ego and get him hooked. Then after you have him hooked, don't change. Continue to be spontaneous, just a little suggestion..
That's a really good suggestion, but men do stray, even when he's getting all he can get in one place. The upside, is, doing this mostly reduces the chances of straying, especially on sex sites.

Keep in mind he's got a smorgasbord of potential women to have sex with , if he is the kind of man who is able to easily attract women.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/9/2016 10:48 pm

 We went out a few times, fun each time, no sex and then POOF. This was after asking me out for today,

Someone probably came along offering him what he was looking for.

Women drop men, too, the minute someone better comes along.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/9/2016 10:45 pm

 This is a sex site, so you're not going to find a great many men of any age looking for relationships, like you would find on Eharmony or Match.

We went out a few times, fun each time, no sex and then POOF. .... See, you went out a few times and "No sex" so he gave up. He was probably following the "3 strikes and you're out" rule.
Finding "Sex" is why he is on this site. Like it or not, this site isn't somewhere a man would normally go to seek a deep meaningful relationship. There are other more qualified sites for that.


AK_Snowflake replies on 8/11/2016 1:36 pm:
I am pretty sure I didn't say I met him on here. But yeah, as for more qualified sites; I have been on them. Funny part many of the men on this site are also on those. Just different posts.
What's wrong with finding a meaningful relationship with an awesome sex life?

northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
8/9/2016 10:42 pm

 We went out a few times, fun each time, no sex and then POOF. This was after asking me out for today ...

Okay, that's completely fucked up.

I had to reread just to make sure I understood the "progression." There are no words. Who does that? WTF!

I wanna' believe such behavior is the exception and extremely uncommon. I understand flaking before a first meet (nerves, fear of rejection, uncertainty) but this happened AFTER you met? What a nutjob.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/9/2016 10:34 pm

 I don't really ever get to meet anyone, being not attractive enough, or not able to fake the huge amount of interest it takes to get noticed, when it is someone that I really don't know yet.

I am sorry for your bad experiences, but I still think it is better to have met someone than it is to be someone that everyone thinks is "nice" or whatever but not the person they want to meet.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


spunky2938 59M
Ask me for a photo

8/9/2016 8:05 pm

 yes they are inconsiderate I have had 5 or 6 so far that is the same way just come out and say itI am not interested and so be it at least you know


howlindog50 73M
Ask me for a photo
509 posts
8/9/2016 7:57 pm

 Unfortunately, they really are . . . with an AWFUL lot of people . . . "it's all about MEEEEEEE!"


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