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women in high places
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women in high places i have notice that women who graduate with their PHD'and Master@ a young age(30-40) normally remains single or quite hard to find a guy(husband)! What your opinion on this? |
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i have been to couple social event put on by these (high ranking)women and i have notice that the only reason they put on these events is to find a potential mate.The people who normally attend these functions are (high ranking)couples.The aim of these socials is to create an oppertunity for one of the couples to introduce a relative to the host,and eventaully get married.IF this is FUTILE she remains single or divorce and give ALL THE WORKER HELL EVERYDAY AT THE DAMN OFFICE.!.!.!
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Hmm. Interesting observation. Do you think it is because the higher up the education ladder you go the more 'discerning" you become about who you want your partner to be? Or how you want your partner to be, even? I remember, some time ago, hearing that there was a study which spoke to the same thing. Don't remember what the conclusion was, but I think it was similar to the above. Something about the more you know, the more prudent you become. The other argument, I suppose, is that these women can be so much a bitch "cause can't no man give her what she can't give herself" that she writes herself out of her own life plan! LOL. Go figure. Anyways, I hope that you ain't on the receiving end of this hell-delivering high ranking woman. More time, A
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4/12/2008 8:16 pm |
hell it's simple, NO REGRETS and just realize that we can't win at everything or have it all.
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5/15/2008 7:03 pm |
i think their lives get too swallowed up by their work or that they spent so much time with what they do/research that they're socially handicapped by the time they can get back 'on the scene'
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5/18/2008 11:26 am |
As a person with a masters and working on a PHD I say that most of the men I meet are intimidated and they really don't need to be. Having an advanced degree doesnt mean your smart it means your crazy enough to stay in shcool as long as it taked to get them.
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5/30/2008 6:30 am |
I think there is some truth about men being intimidated by intelligent, educated, self conscious women. Where for men these characteristics would make them even more attactive in many cases it seems to be a turn off to men when it applies to women. I'm not sure why that is. Lack of self confidence maybe? Or the fright that intelligent women are reputed for being feministic (and therefore scary/unpleasant/bitchy?). Personally I have had a few very smart, well educated and professionally successful girlfriends and enjoyed their open view on sex issues and intelligent and wicked conversation. But maybe it is easier on me because I'm a highly educated successful professional myself. I believe that to a certain extent it is a simple matter of statistics. There are more successful and highly educated men than women out there and because they are highly sought after as a partner they are not as much available. Men don't look at their potential partner's degree or income as much as women do. So their fishing pond is simply much bigger. Many women (no I'm not generalizing) do use criteria as: Is he able to support a family? Is he reliable as a partner? Is he loyal? Will he be able to help me out if I'm losing my income etc, etc... Most men don't even think about these issues when they choose a partner. They are already quite happy when they find a girl who will show up on time at an appointment, is able to flip a burger without dropping it (while he is watching football) and likes sex. Usually it is the first criterion that is most difficult to meet. But then again it is not the most relevant...  I like your blog wicked cat and I would love to meet you. You seem like a lot of fun. Keep on the good things. OK girls. Don't kill me now.
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All I can say is  with this post. One of my desires is to find the woman you speak of.  � CEEDEE � CEEDEE I suffer from delusions of grandeur
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6/24/2008 4:07 pm |
Career women sometimes never marry. Too caught up in work to be "wurkin". Some marry and it fail prolly because all school/work and no play made them dull. These society parties kinda narrow the playing field as well. The right person may not be at that party.
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6/24/2008 4:08 pm |
Seems ur boss giving yu hell, eh?....lol
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First up, kudos for your magazine activity !!! Next, the questions!!! I agree with 'Hardspell' where he indicated that some (maybe most) men are intimidated by a young, intelligent self conscious woman, and the thing about swimming/looking in a larger pond, also the female selection criteria (not necessarily the particulars, but...). With that said, there is more. The Phd. will take you into particular circles, unfortunately in 'those' circles the 'good' men are already taken or are being shared!! Hence the small pond is further reduced!! As to such an individual giving the workers at work hell everyday...it seems that you are on the receiving end of same!! Hey! Maybe you are the answer!! You are not seeking men, you seem to have a frustrated female boss who you (maybe) socialize with, (the second part of your question), and who you may fantasize about, (your other post about fantasies). With some cautious moves you could help solve part of her problem and yours as well !!!
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