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Have you ever... Have you ever met someone and felt major chemistry and wondered how the other person felt? Are they interested? You can't get them out of your mind... I recently met someone who did this to me. I am not sure what to do. I have heard from him since we met but haven't made any plans since.The question that goes through my mind is he contacting me to make himself feel better so he doesn't have to blow me off? Or is he wanting to keep me open for other possibilities. I see him online here but haven't messaged him. I am not one to chase, but often wonder if I am missing out on an opportunity because I am not taking a chance. I'm in a strange place right now, my boy toy and I are at a cross roads and I think it may be fizzling out. This is making me feel very vulnerable and its a feeling that doesn't make me comfortable. I see his likeness in others and it disturbs me... He is on my mind but not how you think, those that know me know I can compartmentalize and I do. Am I possibly mourning the loss of a great sexual relationship. The convenience of having someone so close and accessible to me is great! To lose that... Not fun So do I pursue this new possibility or do I wait to see where he goes with it? |
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As men we are often expected to make the first move when we're attracted to someone. While we may make the first move, that shouldn't be mistaken for a willingness to initiate all conversations. He may have picked up on a nonverbal clue triggered by your conflicted feelings about your other relationship and improperly concluded you lack interest in him. I've been crazy about women and in the past I have held back because I percieved the interest was not mutual. Eventually, I concluded that saying nothing only assured my disappointment. It doesn't need to be anything that creates a sense of vulnerability, just tell him how much you enjoyed the first date and that you enjoyed the chemistry you shared.
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Can't hurt to send an IM or email saying "I've been thinking about you....how's things?" Depending what kind of response you get you'll figure out if he's someone worth pursuing or the feeling wasn't mutual. It's better than wondering.......what if? Tresennui Succumbing to Curiousity tresennui
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You have nothing to lose and everything to gain ! Play it cool, invite him to coffee, farmers market, movies, or fair. If he accepts great, if not you know where you stand. If so have a fun time with no expectations, just a fun day. After that tell him you had a blast and see if he reciprocates.
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Thanks for the great responses! It looks as if I have to step out of my comfort zone and contact him. 
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I have been in contact with since this post and it was more like a "squirrel moment" more than anything. I have been in contact with boy toy as well... Worlds can tell you about that lol!!!! He says he can her my smile... Anyway things are ok with me and boy toy but just not seeing him as much. Not happy... But it is what it is... I continue to meet ppl and weed out the chaff...
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