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Live or memorex?
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Live or memorex? Ok, well I have been on here for a while as I have stated before and the other night someone said something in the chat room I frequent and I said, Oh lordy, do I feel a blog coming on...and here it is...I am so sick of people coming into our chat room, and I am sure they do the same thing in any other chat room they go into, and blurt out..."Are there any real women in here or are all of you fake...doesn't anyone meet?"...grrrrrr....ok, let me give my take on this, and hopefully you will give your opinion as well. First, this site has many, many more men on it than women, making it easier for women to<b> meet men </font></b>of their choice than is is for men to meet women. There really isn't anything any of us women here can do about that and I am sorry for the inequality of numbers. Let me tell you though, women get swamped with emails everyday, and it is very difficult to keep up with them all. I do try, but sometimes the task is too great for me and I am sure other women feel the same way. I am not saying you shouldn't send emails if you want to meet with a woman or just tell her you liked her picture or profile, but if she doesn't answer you, consider not that she is fake but just has too many to answer. Second, alot of women are on here out of curiosity, and just to pass the time away, not necessarily to meet anyone but just to have fun talking and watching. This does not make them fake, just looking for something different than most men here. I would say they should state their intentions in their profile, but alot of men don't even read the profiles, just see pics and start typing...lol...so I suggest you READ before you write, and perhaps save yourself some time. Third, women who do meet like to know who they are meeting...thus might request a man come to chat room and talk for a while...this gives the woman opportunity to get a feel of the man's personality and if they would hit it off or not. I don't think this is an unreasonable request or one that a fake woman would make. Maybe if you got a chance to instant message or even better come to a meet and greet(our chat room has them monthly), that would greatly increase your chances of women agreeing to go out with you. Lastly, I have been to as many as 20 or 25 meet and greets over the years and met so many wonderful people, that I guess that is why it irks me when people generalize that no one meets...we do meet, but sometimes it just takes time and a little effort and patience. And don't ever assume that only the men can't find women who meet. Let me tell you, I lost count of the number of times I have been given the ..."maybe next Friday", and not hear from the man till the following Monday or never again...or cancelled on the day of a date, or minutes before while I am already there waiting or just flatly stood up...it happens to ALL of us and is part of the dating game. If you just move on with a good attitude instead of getting bitter you will have much better luck!!! |
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2/12/2009 3:50 pm |
cool
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2/12/2009 4:00 pm |
interesting
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2/12/2009 4:08 pm |
Wow...i would go to a meet and greet but im way to shy... I ranther just have 1 on 1...lol..
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2/12/2009 4:12 pm |
She was right, she was simple.. I deleted it, I can tolerate the inane comments of the wankers, but when the peskies start coming onto me, well I'm afraid they have to go...
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2/12/2009 4:24 pm |
cool =)
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Hey Irish, Can I send you one of those emails? lol luv ya... Hershey
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Guys...take what this great lady just said and use it wisely...She speaks for most of us gals in the Philly room! BTW...if you're lucky enough to meet our lovely Ms Irish...consider yaself at an advantage...you won't find better...and those lessons.....whew!!..take your vitamins...you're gonna need 'em!! Love Ya!! 
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2/13/2009 6:29 am |
VERY well put, E.! It's astounding how so many men just don't get it-must be the testosterone clouding their little pea brains. BTW, hoping to be back in "circulation" soon, Muaaaah! "Nature always favors the hidden fault. "- (Murphy's Third Law)
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2/13/2009 10:03 am |
DO you really have M&G once a month? Are they all up in PA ?
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2/13/2009 8:02 pm |
i've met a couple of nice guys. one jerk but the rest have been very decent and i have formed long lasting relationships.
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Wise words Ms. Irish...now c'mere 'n gimme a booby-hug! 
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1 on 1?? Good grief! The Meet & Greets are NOT orgies...If that's what you're expecting then don't bother to show up, 'cause You'll likely be disappointed.
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WOW...I knew I would strike a Chord with this one...lol...and I am glad to see so many replies...wish I had time to respond to you all...ty to the ones who don't know me and responded as well, as this is not just a problem for women in chat rooms, but all women on the site...Tx if you are shy, you should come out anyway, I will take you under my wing, introduce you to a few so you aren't overwhelmed, and protect your virtue...lol...and yes the are Meet and Greets, where we get together in public place, say hello, put faces with the names, dance(if you like that sort of thing) and laugh...alottttttttt....and to be honest, its always evenly mixed if not more women than men...so this proves we do meet, but feel safer in numbers...Easy, yes, generally they are all in Pa, either Bensalem, Lansdale, or Fogelsville, but we are ALWAYS looking for new venues that can hold a big crowd and are either inside a hotel or extremely close to one(we don't promote drinking and driving)...swtluvn, dear you can have all the booby rubs you want, but I have been tryin to give some a way like that for years, and it just doesn't work...hahahah...nessus, I miss you and hope that life has been much kinder to you of late!...autumn, so good to see you are still around and happy...lovinlif, well what you said is so true, but not just for the men but for all of us...so many always looking at others for our troubles instead of ourselves...and momo hunny, you are too kind and sweet, and I will give you any kind of lessons you want, but I already know you don't need them.... God Bless you all!!!!!!
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2/14/2009 9:32 pm |
Irish tells it correctly and articulately as always. She certainly has a way with the language. I'm out in the sticks and she's not. Geography bites! LOL
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Ok, ok. I'll share my secret with all the other guys that seem to have trouble on this site. It's simple, really: Just be a nice guy! I know I'm no Brad Pitt, but I also know it doesn't matter! Women like nice guys! And I bet I'm nicer than Brad Pitt.  I've met several people in my short time here, and just about everyone has been perfectly sane, normal, and very real. Some (Hello Irish!) are even much nicer than you'd expect. Oh, and no one here has seen my cock pics because I have no cock pics. I don't think any woman here has ever said, "Sure, his personality sucks, and he's dumb as a rock. But have you seen that cock pic? I'll fuck him!". Cock pics = No. "Hello room. Any ladies in [my city] want to fuck tonight?" = No. Be a normal, nice guy and talk to people in a normal, nice manner = Yes. That's all I got to say about that.  PoorMe PoorMeImSane
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3/9/2011 9:35 pm |
well written, honesty and truth was always my mantra. And it works. Guys,we are all guilty of false hopes. Treat her with the same respect you would want someone to treat your sister, or daughter with. If you and sis were at the supermarket and a dude asks her to fuck you will probably want to rip his balls off. This is no different. Will be at this meet n greet. newer member on Local Adult Companion, was a member on SDC & went to several florida m/g events, all fun, all worth the time. looking forward. Eric
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