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MY PROFILE FOR YOU STANDARD MEMBERS.. respect it or walk away  

unkumitd 40F  
86 posts
9/27/2010 3:12 pm
MY PROFILE FOR YOU STANDARD MEMBERS.. respect it or walk away


This may come as a complete shock to most ppl but I'm NOT part of the INTSA-FUK club here on the friend finder network or any of its affiliate sites.. those are a few profiles down from mine if you need directions. I am a REAL laid back cool chic, a guys best friend with boobs if you will (lol) and like to just chill out and play cards or video games or pool and be interactive/social. So right now I'm looking for FRIENDS only!! No benefits, unless you can cover my medical and dental, ha! And yes I fully understand what kind of site(s) these are, I had my reasons when I joined and I'm SOOOO over them. I'm here to make friends now and expand my circle w/o shedding any clothes in the process (yes the consensus is that it's possible). I'm NOT looking for sex, or a side relationship or anything along those lines, I don't need this site for a sexual hook up, but thanx for feeling you might be the one for the task. if all you're bringing to the table is what I get served at home, where's the incentive? my thoughts exactly.
I want some cool ppl to meet up with and hang out with like you would your own best friend, in public cuz all my old ones have paired off and started to reproduce. So if you won't do those things you write to me abt with your best friend or cousin, then I am not the one for you. Now IF sex comes along under the right conditions pending a LONG TERM relationship of sorts, sweet, highly unlikely but we'll both be alright.. gurl scout promise.
I don't use the friend finder network like that and I like my personal privacy, so if you get declined for a network add, cam view or certain personal info, don't cry abt it. And don't send invites just to view my pics.. I rotate them regularly for you non-paying standard members, so have patience. And yes all the pics are of me and i know they are semi-confusing considering what i'm seeking but let's be real, i could post a brown paper bag and because you have a penis you'd try to hump that too so i figured i'd do my friend a service for taking such awesome shots for me and post some of his work.. so deal with it or keep moving.

so in short i'm going to keep things clear, at the LCD. i'm looking for locals (if we currently are not, milage would confirm that), i am looking to eventually meet the persons i chat up, but sex will NEVER be an outcome. i don't seem to be able to stress that enough. so if you have to assume i have 18 , a jealous husband or bf, or am infected with pesticide resistant crabs, please do, cuz i'm not looking. i'm not looking for any commitment as my name suggests, just moral respectfulness. i too am not here for the drama or unnecessary pressure. if we hit it off and become friends sweet, if not no hard feelings. have no other hopeful expectations, as i will not offer or expect anything outside genuine friendship. if i sound too guarded or uninterested, my apologizes, but too many worms on the site have halted pie production, ya dig.
Let me know if you're up for a REAL challenge.. i swear i'm not a heartless bytch, lol.. ask the ppl who stick around in my area long enough and they'll tell you this. n e who, serious and attentive ppl only!! also if you made it this far and want to reach me please feel free to use this name with my other media account.. til then, ciao (revised 2020 cuz the admin keeps editing my profile to fit their narrative.. do stop yourselves. thank you kindly).

My Ideal Person would Ideally be a D/D free, honest, un-attached, self confident and emotionally secure men only please (but i'd like to meet anyone looking for NEW friends [male/female/neuter]). Also if you don't fall into my preferred "cupid" category due to height (5'9 or taller plz) or age (+/- a year or two) or smoking (eww) or drug use (uh no thanx) status.. breathe, life will go on. That is the confidence and security I'm referring to. Not looking for anyone who feels obligated, or makes me feel obligated, to do anything cuz of warped thinking, lack of communication skills or general craziness. I'm not the one. I can be your friend first and foremost and we can possibly fuk on a regular basis but come at me straight-forward, correct, with the sense to understand NO! when you hear it and w/o the b/s and we'll get things moving along fine. I'm 100% real and expect the same. So if you're married, "separated" or otherwise a liar or cheat, keep moving. Unless you can tell your significant other what you're doing and why I'm involved I don't need her drama. I have my own. Ultimately if you just don't get it.. you never will and I'll have to resort to plan B with you..cha-ching !

rm_bubbsmx 53M
97 posts
9/27/2010 8:12 pm

You sound like person I am looking for some to just have fun with wish I was closer to you, hope you find what you want.


sman2k.01 51M
3151 posts
9/28/2010 7:28 am

If you are not looking for sex or a relationship, but just friendship only, why does it matter how tall the other person is?


unkumitd 40F  
53 posts
9/28/2010 8:47 am

    Quoting sman2k.01:
    If you are not looking for sex or a relationship, but just friendship only, why does it matter how tall the other person is?
it doesn't really matter how tall the other person is, but shorter ppl tend to make me feel self conscious since i'm tall for a girl to begin with, then i'm not being myself 100% when i'm around them if that makes sense. it's a "ideal" preference, not saying i won't converse with you or anything.
same thing for the age group. ideally i want to hang out with ppl close in age and life phase, that way we have more in common life wise.


sman2k.01 51M
3151 posts
9/28/2010 8:41 pm

    Quoting unkumitd:
    it doesn't really matter how tall the other person is, but shorter ppl tend to make me feel self conscious since i'm tall for a girl to begin with, then i'm not being myself 100% when i'm around them if that makes sense. it's a "ideal" preference, not saying i won't converse with you or anything.
    same thing for the age group. ideally i want to hang out with ppl close in age and life phase, that way we have more in common life wise.
OK, that makes sense.


swtblkmeat 57M

10/24/2010 6:01 pm

hey I read thanks for the directions to find out who you are and what you are about. It's funny for all of the things I am you never took the time to find out, was I looking for a conversation or was I looking to be the next guy you handled on Local Adult Companion, in the end Thanks for answering the IM and thanks for the brief conversation.


rocketboy120 55M

11/15/2010 7:20 pm

I'll be up front. I'm too old and I'm married. That said, I like and respect your candor. I am also not looking for anyone to have sex with on the site. I just want to talk to fun people. I'm on the road a lot, and nearly all of my friends are virtual. You seem like a cool person, which is why I'm writing this. I understand your rules, though, so I'll wish you luck and walk away. Gotta find those pix, tho...

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unkumitd 40F  
53 posts
3/5/2011 9:57 pm

    Quoting  :

not at all. i just know what i wantand what i'm looking for and shouldn't have to settle for or accept anything less than that, no one should. if you choose to just take what come along, then that's on you, no room to complain abt it later. you got what you asked for, ya dig?


rm_peter3dude 83M
547 posts
5/14/2011 1:40 pm

well if chat friend is ok and older is not a problem perhaps you will hit me up on yh same id as here peter3dude


Ringlos 57M
456 posts
5/10/2012 2:40 pm

You sound interesting!

Well, I am too old to fit and too far away to be considered but if you are ever around here on my side of the Ocean you may let me know


machew2016 46M
41 posts
11/20/2020 12:34 pm

You seem like an interesting person to get to know


unkumitd replies on 11/20/2020 4:22 pm:
thanx hun..y old friends felt the same way but I've moved and am trying to make new ones to show them this

Gentlystoked 47M
72 posts
11/20/2020 2:47 pm

Okay, sounds great to me. I have never met anyone from here anyway, so, yeah. Cool.


unkumitd 40F  
53 posts
11/20/2020 4:21 pm

aww thank. my old friends felt the same.. lol. now if I could stay in one place long enough to show the new ones..


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