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Blogs > rm_Supersize_Me > What lies beneath...

How I lost my virginity.  

rm_Supersize_Me 47M/42F
78 posts
4/22/2008 7:06 pm
How I lost my virginity.
I have just finished recounting the story of how I lost my virginity in response to a question on net_girl_2000's blog and thought I would post my answer again here for anyone who is interested...

It happened to me when I was 17 and on the rebound from a recent break-up. Although my ex and I had only been together for 6 months, I truly believed we would be spending the rest of our lives together and was devastated when he finished with me. I'd also believed he would be the one to take my virginity, but again, this wasn't to be, although we did pretty much everything else (including a little<b> mutual masturbation </font></b>and oral sex).

As I said, I didn't take the break-up well. In fact, I spent the next couple of days crying . Then, because I was having a few self-esteem issues, I threw myself at the first guy who showed any interest in me. He was very good-looking, but a bit of sleaze-bag with an unhealthy obsession with Jim Morrison. Anyway to cut a long story short, I let him pop my cherry (even though he was wearing ridiculous pink briefs and cowboy boots at the time). It was not a good experience, as he was only concerend about pleasing himself. He was clumsy, rough and lasted about 5 minutes.

We did it again a couple of days later, but it wasn't much better (in hindsight I can see that he just wasn't a very good lover). I had also begun to realise how little we had in common, so after just two weeks of dating, I came to my senses and kicked him to the kerb.

So there you have it, the start of a journey that has brought me here in search of a supersize experience. Let me know if you found it interesting. Luv & hugs .


shyscorpio5 73M
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1859 posts
4/23/2008 2:18 am

 In some ways it reminds me of my own experience. And yes I did find it interesting.


rm_Supersize_Me 47M/42F
40 posts
4/23/2008 4:22 pm

 Thanks for your feedback, shyscorpio5. Do tell me more about your own experience, as I'm interested to hear.


shyscorpio5 73M
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1859 posts
4/25/2008 3:02 pm

 I was a little older than you. I was going with a girl for a few months and she was the first girl that I said that I was in love with her. We had gotten into a little mutual masturbation. I'm not sure why she broke up with me. It was the classic line 'We can just be friends'. I would have preferred that she put a bullet in the back of my head at that point. I'm not much of a player so I didn't have that much experience with girls/women. That made the turn down a lot worse to me than it really was. I was still depressed and more introverted than before.

That was the part of your story that kind of matches mine. As for losing my virginity, that was with a hooker who did give a terrific blow job, and was enthusiastic about sex. That was different from your story.


rm_Supersize_Me 47M/42F
40 posts
4/26/2008 5:52 pm
    Quoting shyscorpio5:
    I was a little older than you. I was going with a girl for a few months and she was the first girl that I said that I was in love with her. We had gotten into a little mutual masturbation. I'm not sure why she broke up with me. It was the classic line 'We can just be friends'. I would have preferred that she put a bullet in the back of my head at that point. I'm not much of a player so I didn't have that much experience with girls/women. That made the turn down a lot worse to me than it really was. I was still depressed and more introverted than before.

    That was the part of your story that kind of matches mine. As for losing my virginity, that was with a hooker who did give a terrific blow job, and was enthusiastic about sex. That was different from your story.
Having been in a similar situation, I can totally sympathise. Break-ups are never easy, especially when we're not sure where it all went wrong (which let's face it, is most of the time). The perfect partner is out there for all of us, though. We just have to keep on searching until we find them. Jeez - I'm starting to sound like an agony aunt here... I think I should shutup now.


shyscorpio5 73M
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1859 posts
4/27/2008 3:32 am

 That's okay about sounding like an agony aunt. I think that this yankee understands. I like getting a little sympathy now and then. I like you have a partner that has a lot of problems which makes sex a thing of the past with me, so in a way I need all the sympathy that I can get...LOL Well your pictures give me something else to use my imagination on. Thanks much.


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