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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Stood up again.....  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
3/1/2009 3:25 pm
Stood up again.....

Well as I sit here wiping the tears from my eyes, I once again wonder why. Why in todays world do men (and women) hurt the ones they supposedly care about? I do not understand.

I am at that point in my life that I am beginning to question life around me. I mean here I was 1 year ago getting ready to celebrate my 18th wedding anniversary. Little did I know that within 9 months I would no longer be with my husband, would be living apart from one of my daughters, and living on my own for the very first time. So now here I am looking at that anniversary date again but this time with dread.

So here are my questions. Please feel free to give me your opinions whether good or bad. Honesty is always the best.

Why do men and women make a date with someone then later call it off with some stupid excuse?

Why do men and women dwell on outward apperances so much?

Why are some men so interested in sex, boobs, etc that they turn women off as soon as they meet?

Why do men say things that they know will hurt?

Why as women do we allow them to break our hearts? Why do the tears come as soon as I realize I am all alone in this world? Why is it possible for some women who are willing to hop in and out of bed with anyone the ones who find happiness? WHy can they find a man who wants them? Why are there good women out there who are serious about being with a guy. That truly want to be happy and make their man happy. Why don't any of the good guys that I know are still out there in this cruel world ever want to be with me?

Sometimes I lie in bed and cry myself to sleep. I mean I know of women who spend all their time chasing guys. They have guys all over them. They are not pretty, they are not sincere, they are not honest, they are not careful. But yet they are the ones who get the guys. WHy is it that way? I am a fairly good looking woman, I am honest and true. I will always be there to the end. I enjoy talking and laughing. I enjoy making otheres happy. So why can I not find that same happiness that everyone one around me seems to be able to find?

Ok so now that I have made a total fool of myself...I will go to my bedroom, put on my jammies, curl up with my teddy bears and cry myself to sllep once more.
sexxionetoo 64F

3/1/2009 4:36 pm

 Girl,,,,to answer all those questions and solve the world problems,,,we would need to get together with a case of wine coolers...I know people are cruel,,, and men and women can be about the same in that area...Choosing the right partner is key,,,,finding the right one,,, you ask?,,,your guess is as good as mine...Need a friend,,,,I am here....J
Life is just too damn short.Enjoy each other to the fullest and have no regrets.


donttellanyone21 38M

3/3/2009 9:32 am

 if it were easy, would it really be worth it?


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
3/5/2009 11:58 pm

 I know you want to find that special guy now but remember we all have to travel a path to get to our destination. Your path may have detours or road blocks to navigate but you will get to your destination. You just have to be patient with the slow downs. The journey is worth it baby. YOU are worth the wait.


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