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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

BEAUTY  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
3/2/2009 8:23 pm
BEAUTY

Okay....so I am a big sap, wuss, pansy etc. I mean I fall for the lines. I let the guys break my heart. I believe their words. So how do you get over the heartaches?

Well I am soooo tired of guys telling me how beautiful I am, then in the very next breath asking to see my boobs, look at their penis pics, have sex, meet them for a blow job, etc. I am also tired of people telling me I am beautiful and that there is someone out there for me. Oh yeah? Really? Where?

Beauty is only skin deep. True beauty lies within. Okay so who exactly made up this crap? I mean honestly, most guys would fall over themselves for some young built model. Are they looking only at their outer beauty or are they getting to know the real woman inside. My point exactly. Most men are just hoping she will give them the time of day.

And yes women are the same way. We look at these male models, dancers, etc. I mean I can honestly say that I would say yes in a heartbeat if some hot young stud asked me out. But is that what I look for in a guy that I would want to actually spend time with? No. Yes it would be fun while it lasted, but who is to say that the guy even has a brain in his head (the one on his shoulders that is).

No for me personally I look at the important stuff. Can he hold a conversation? Does he respect the women around him? Does he want to hold my hand? Will he care whether or not I have on makeup? Will he be there to fight my demons? Will he fall in love with me for the me that I am?

Yeah so someone please explain the true meaning of beauty. Because personally I see beauty in so many different ways. I see beauty when I look into the eyes of my daughters. I see beauty in the eyes of my dogs. I see beauty in the faces of my dearest friends. I see beauty in R, H, N, D. I see beauty in the mirror sometimes. Every once in awhile just when I am not looking I see beauty peeking back at me.

Yes I know I have a problem with self confidence. I had a friend today tell me that I need to stop down-playing myself. He told me that I am a beautiful woman. And guess what he did not say anything sexual!!! Well my thought on it is that I have never really been told that I was pretty, beautiful, sexy, hot, etc. I mean if a guy says it to me they are usually asking for a little something in return.

So beauty is it something that actually exists or is it just another way for a guy to get laid?
PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
3/6/2009 12:14 am

 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You see beauty. You see love. My humble opinion is that true beauty is tied to a good heart. I think you will understand that.

But yes, some people will use pretty words to get the physical intimacy they seek. For every sincere person out there ... there's a village idiot stumbling into your path. Dodge the idiots and seek a partner with true beauty. You will find him.


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