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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Life  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
3/18/2009 10:37 pm
Life

I have figured out that life is a crapshoot! I am damned if I do, and damned if I don't.

If I am nice to people I tend to get walked on. If I say no to people I am called a bitch or a tease. If I say yes then I am a slut.

I try to help my aquaintances and I end up hurting my friends. I am confused. Can someone please tell me what I am supposed to do? Do I not help others? Do I become totally celebiate? (PRETTY MUCH THERE ANYWAY!) Do I have a life?

What is it that guys are looking for now anyway? I mean, I try to be nice, social, friendly. I try to make myself look nice. I try to enjoy the things they enjoy. Why is it that the sluts, the married housewives looking for a quickie, or the one nighter party girls getting guys?

I really do not understand. I am not asking for much in a man. I mean honesty, loyalty, friendship. Those qualities aren't that hard to find are they? I mean I don't place money or looks first. I want someone who wants to talk, hold hands, spend time with me both inside & outside the bedroom. I want a guy who wants to hang out at home or outside. I want a guy who will treat me like a woman should be treated. Respect, caring, friendship.....

Sometimes I truly wonder why I am being dealt this hand. I mean what exactly did I do to deserve this? I don't remember pissing anyone off. Don't remember treating anyone unjustly. For the most part I am a pretty good girl. I treat people the same way I want to be treated.

Ok I guess I have rambled on long enough. I guess I am just tired of going home alone. I guess I am tired of sleeping alone. I guess I am tired of having noone to hold me. I guess I am tired of noone being there for ME!
NotSoDarkKnight 55M
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3/19/2009 8:09 am

 Different guys look for different things. Some are only looking to get laid, some want a FWB type relationship, some are looking for true-love. You just have to be clear on what you want and make sure to ask the right questions on what they want.

The type of person you are finding may also be because of where you are looking. I wouldn't expect to find true love on Local Adult Companion or in a bar, but you might find a FWB or a one-nighter.
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PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
3/26/2009 12:26 am

 What do men want? God only knows .... Each man is different just like each woman is unique. It's a good thing.

The girls that are getting 'all' the guys ... are EASY!! You are not easy. You have morals. You do not meet a man and have sex with him right away. By having good morals, you will eliminate the men who just want laid. And the real, genuine men will be happy they are not expected to 'perform' on the first date. They will see your morals as a good thing.

Remember ... you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince!


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