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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Wants & Needs  

80sbaby71 52F
7340 posts
9/15/2009 3:57 pm
Wants & Needs

Well I guess there comes a time in everyones life that they must decide which is more important: their wants or their needs.

When I say wants/needs I am not talking basics. I don't mean food, shelter etc. I mean in life, love, spirit.

Over the last year I have discovered things about myself. I have discovered that I had a strength in me that I never realized. I was able to stand strong in the face of a marriage of 18+years going down the drain. I was able to face living on my own for the very first time in my life (with advice & support from friends). I am working at being self dependent (hard at times).

But in life there are also some basic needs. A man has needs as does a woman. No I am not talking SEX!....Okay maybe a little. But not in that context.

I want to have someone in my life. A constant someone. No not just a fuck. Someone who is there to sit and talk to. Someone to hold me when I am down. Someone to wipe away my tears after a bad day. Someone to hold me, to care.

I want someone who will be happy sitting and watching a movie. Someone who wants to take the time to explain sports....(really do watch football for more than the cute butts in the pants). Someone who wants to be with me.

I want someone who will gently take me to bed. Caress me. Kiss me. Touch me. Make slow gentle love to me. I want someone who will take me and shove me up against the couch and have hot wild sex. Someone who will leave me breathless. Someone who will leave me lying on the bed after all is said and done with a smile on my face that will not go away.

Ok so those are my wants. Needs? HMMMM, well I need to feel loved. I need to feel wanted. I need to hear someone say that they care. I need to be touched.

So what do I do? I am at a point in my life that I have men who pursue me, but their wants & needs and mine are different. That isn't to say that there isn't someone out there who has the same wants and needs as myself. But sometimes it is hard to voice.

I am a flirt! HUGE flirt! Ask any on my friends from the group. But that is all it is.....flirting. I don't "sleep around". I can't. Whenever I make the decision to "sleep" with a guy I also put a part of my heart into the decision. Am I saying that I am in love with every guy I have had sex with? NO! But I do have to have feelings to have sex. Most of the guys have stayed my friends.
naiverotation 37M

9/15/2009 7:18 pm

 beautiful.


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
9/18/2009 1:25 am

 The right man is out there. He's just being elusive.

I do love Sir Wades idea of looking into a mans eyes. You can learn a lot by staring into someones eyes. You see them and they see you. Some people are good at hiding their emotions and souls but others will let you see their heart. That will help you know which way to go with them.


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