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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Dating  

80sbaby71 52F
7340 posts
10/28/2009 3:05 pm
Dating

Okay so as I sit here, home alone, I am wondering about the dating world. I mean I have been out in the dating world for about the last year. Before that it had been more than 20 years.

I am trying to remember what dating is supposed to be like. I mean have things changed so much? I mean hell in high school it was a date meant going out to a party or something. What is dating like now?

Well let's see.....go get a drink, go to your place....fuck....go home? That about right? I'm sorry do I sound a bit bitter? Well that is because of the way I seem to have been treated lately.

1. Had a guy tell me that I was lucky because I had "a whole stable" of guys to take care of my sexual needs.?! WTF? I have friends, alot of guy friends. Do I call them up for sex? NOPE!

2. Had another guy make the comment "figured you hooked up with an old flame".?! WTF! Am I supposed to be a slut? Don't think so!

3. I am tired of being treated this way. I am a woman, I have feelings and I have needs. No not just the need to be FUCKED 24/7! I want to be held. I want someone to talk to. I want someone who is there to comfort me. I want someone to wipe away my tears. I want someone to volunteer to go kick some ass for me. I want someone to wrap me in there arms and make all my troubles go away. I want SOMEONE! I WANT SOMEONE! I NEED SOMEONE!
PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
11/3/2009 2:05 am

 1. Had a guy tell me that I was lucky because I had "a whole stable" of guys to take care of my sexual needs.?! WTF? I have friends, alot of guy friends. Do I call them up for sex? NOPE!

I think many of us women on here KNOW a 'stable' of men that would satisfy our needs if we asked. So the guy could have a point. No, you may not call them for sex but even I know a hand full of men that would come to my rescue.

2. Had another guy make the comment "figured you hooked up with an old flame".?! WTF! Am I supposed to be a slut? Don't think so!

Whoa baby! Why does hooking up with an old flame make anybody a slut? I don't think it does. Sluts have sex with people they don't know very well or with people they don't like/love. Old flames stir up wonderful feelings of nostalgia and comfort. A day in bed with an old flame is a day well spent Just my opinion.

3. I am tired of being treated this way. I am a woman, I have feelings and I have needs. No not just the need to be FUCKED 24/7! I want to be held. I want someone to talk to. I want someone who is there to comfort me. I want someone to wipe away my tears. I want someone to volunteer to go kick some ass for me. I want someone to wrap me in there arms and make all my troubles go away. I want SOMEONE! I WANT SOMEONE! I NEED SOMEONE!

I know I don't fit the profile but I am here for you. I will kick ass anyday. Sometimes just for fun. Hang in there Baby! Your prince will come!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
11/3/2009 11:05 pm
    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    1. Had a guy tell me that I was lucky because I had "a whole stable" of guys to take care of my sexual needs.?! WTF? I have friends, alot of guy friends. Do I call them up for sex? NOPE!

    I think many of us women on here KNOW a 'stable' of men that would satisfy our needs if we asked. So the guy could have a point. No, you may not call them for sex but even I know a hand full of men that would come to my rescue.

    2. Had another guy make the comment "figured you hooked up with an old flame".?! WTF! Am I supposed to be a slut? Don't think so!

    Whoa baby! Why does hooking up with an old flame make anybody a slut? I don't think it does. Sluts have sex with people they don't know very well or with people they don't like/love. Old flames stir up wonderful feelings of nostalgia and comfort. A day in bed with an old flame is a day well spent Just my opinion.

    3. I am tired of being treated this way. I am a woman, I have feelings and I have needs. No not just the need to be FUCKED 24/7! I want to be held. I want someone to talk to. I want someone who is there to comfort me. I want someone to wipe away my tears. I want someone to volunteer to go kick some ass for me. I want someone to wrap me in there arms and make all my troubles go away. I want SOMEONE! I WANT SOMEONE! I NEED SOMEONE!

    I know I don't fit the profile but I am here for you. I will kick ass anyday. Sometimes just for fun. Hang in there Baby! Your prince will come!
What if he has come along and I make the wrong choice? What if he does what all the others have done before him? I really don't want to be hurt again, I don't know how much more I can take.


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