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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Choices  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
1/9/2010 4:16 pm
Choices

We all make choices in our lives. Some are personal, some professional. Some choices are easy to make while others take time and thought.

Why do we make the wrong choices? Do you think that maybe we do so purposely? Trying to find a way to punish ourselves? Others?

Some choices that we make I think are done for the wrong reasons. We make a choice to please others and end up hurting ourselves. And some choices are made hastily. Sometimes we are in pain either emotionally or otherwise. And we make a choices that may not be the best. And then we do not know how to fix the choice that we have made.

Love life is confusing. Pleasing ones partner, deciding how much pain you want to be in......just to be cared for. Is it better sometimes to be alone? Or to be in a relationship that is completely one sided?
PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
1/13/2010 12:42 am

 It is better to be alone! Relationships are not supposed to hurt mentally or physically. The way to correct a mistake is easy and hard. You have to be honest. You have to respect yourself and put yourself first.

Say, I'm sorry but I need to do what is best for me. I have one life to live and I deserve to be in a warm, loving relationship. I won't find that while I am in this relationship. I am sorry. Good luck finding what you want.

No arguments. No yelling. Just simple honest words spoken with dignity and respect. Thats how to live your life Baby, with dignity and respect for yourself and others. I have faith in you. I am here for you.


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