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OK so let's recap
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OK so let's recap OK I know I already blogged about this subject but it looks as though it has moved past the stage of being a joke so I thought it was time to recap. As a woman on Local Adult Companion I feel like sometimes we tend to get treated as "things", instead of people sometimes. I will also say that I have seen a good share of men here who have the same complaint; so I know that this is a 2 sided coin so to speak. As most know, I am looking only for women, and have spent countless hours editing and doctoring my profile to be VERY clear about what I am looking for. I had been somewhat vague in the past and I figured if I was able to make enough changes to it that it would cut down on the number of emails that I recieved from guys. Amazingly enough it actually did trim the numbers down, which saves me some time. I even turned on my auto reply to let guys know that they wouldnt get any response from me. In addition, I also changed my headline to read, "Looking for LADIES only.....men need not apply" because I know that not all people can see my profile and wanted to be sure that I was communicating clearly. My last blog on this particular subject was more of a joke only because right after I made all those changes to my profile, I recieved an email from a guy, which I would like to post in here just so we can take a look. The email read as follows: "Hey there. How are you doin? I saw your profile and wanted to see if you maybe wanted to meet for lunch or coffee one day. This isnt so BS letter. I am being honest and truthful. Please respond either way if you are interested or not out of respect. I am lookin forward to hearing from ya." Now with the auto reply set up he would have gotten a message that looked something similar to this: "Thanks for taking the time to send me over some mail. If this is a guy sending it over, please be aware that I do not reply to emails from men and will not be sending any further replies to you." So I am thinking, hmmmm, hes obviously read the profile and should have seen the women only thing, but maybe he was having an off day and sent it anyways. Now by this time he should know that he wont get a response back from me and this will be the last time I hear from him. I do have a sense of humor and so I wrote the literacy blog after recieving the email because I found it very ironic that he would actually send me that email AFTER I changed up the profile to be VERY clear. I got many responses to the blog and it was basically one of those humor stories to give you a giggle. Anyways, I recieved a SECOND email from this young man today. Not only did he email me a second time, but he basically sent me the EXACT same email. My first reaction is WTF??  followed by a slightly irritated feeling. Im thinking......hmmmmm.......hes asking for a reply out of respect, what about respecting my wishes and not bothering me a second time AND requesting me to respond to him.So now my thinking is this: I guess I dont understand why they even bother.....if they can email you then you KNOW they can read the profile so they have no excuse not to pay attention. I know that guys are very intelligent creatures typically and it is really sad that one or two have to make them look bad like that! So at this point I decided to do something out of character and I did send back a response which went something like this: "Hmmmm....respect.....were you thinking that I should respect you with a response when you couldnt respect me enough to read the profile and RESPECT my wishes. Let me make this crystal clear for you, as my profile states I am only seeking WOMEN, and not in the least looking for any men. After I sent the response email I promptly blocked him to prevent any further communications, and I am left wondering why people cant take the time to actually read the profile over and check their cupid settings before sending that email. I mean seriously if you are really looking for a match then doesnt it make more sense to put your efforts into those with whom you think you have a shot at meeting rather than to waste a bunch of time sending out a gazillion emails to a bunch of people that wouldnt give you the time of day. I have to say that I instantly lose respect for those guys who chose to email me, looking for a hookup. Now I do get some emails from guys that I know as friends and that doesnt bother me in the least. What bugs me is those emails that show such a blatent lack of respect for me, and a complete disregard for what I have had to say in my profile. This leaves me thinking that what I have to say doesnt matter, and that people who behave this way are making those who actually read the profiles and respect others look bad and for that I am truly sorry. I continue to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, although I may be prone to outbursts from time to time when I get the impression that they just arent hearing me. Anyways, I go forward now and leave this ridiculous scenario behind me....ENOUGH SAID 2SXYLIPS |
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nice pic
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how dare you slander the good name of men everywhere! I'll have you know we are NOT intelligent creatures. Pure instinct baby, pure instinct.
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Hey I am not as think as you dumb I am.
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2sxylips, I feel your pain. Just last night I got an IM from some local putz "looking for fun". One would think with all the times that I mention that I'm straight plus the little warning I've posted in my profile and blog, about possible consequences for bothering me with such nonsense, that it would deter such contact. Yeah .... Right. Some people just don't get it.  Perhaps I should hang someone out as an example.  It's under consideration. Take care. Catch up with you soon. Cancer6962    I  eat'n 
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