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Uh, really?
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Uh, really? I was playing on this other "vanilla" dating site a bit earlier and it has this little IM thing on it. I could see someone checking out my profile and then the little box popped up 'cause apparently he wanted to chat with me. Fine, cool, groovy, neat, uh huh. I read his profile, seemed kinda sweet and nice, you know, going on about how he's into romance and cuddling and stuff, and "really getting to know someone". Huh, cool, nice. This is the conversation I got: Him: "So how come you're single?" Me: "I divorced my cheating ex and haven't found the right guy yet. Yourself?" Him: "I have a girlfriend, we're looking for a gurl for a threesome. You interested?" Me: "Nope. Fuck off." Block  In hindsight I really wish I could have thought of something a bit more witty and scathing. Truth be told I was just pissed and annoyed. Hell I can get that shit here.  And quite frankly here, I deal with it a bit better. I'm mentally prepared for it I guess. When someone is actually nice and decent I'm pleasantly surprised and thrilled! None of my profiles anywhere would come close to suggesting that I'd be into non-discriminatory sex with just anyone that asks. No where does it say that I'm advertising myself out as a toy to be used, abused and tossed away.   And yet I keep getting this shit from assholes that are clearly mentally handicapped. It's enough some days to make me want to crawl back in my cave.  Yeah, yeah, rant over, they're everywhere.  |
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1/14/2010 9:53 pm |
I was hoping you could come play with me and my girl, but since I'm still all sick and congested you're gonna have to help me blow her up this time. Last time I got all dizzy and stuff. Ended up just taking a nap. You know you could always play it straight, set up the appointment, get the address, tell them to be wet and ready by the time you get there, and then phone in a domestic disturbance with the police. Or you could just play interested but see how many wacky demands you can make. Tell him you'll show up but only if you can spank his ass with a carrot. I know you're serious about your search for a decent guy but don't forget stupid people were put here for your amusement.
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I couldn't stand the vanilla sites because they seem like some sort of badly annoying job interview where you are being scrutinized and judged to the point of ridiculosity. Like it just feels as if a background check is imminent. Plus the complete and utter lack of mentioning anything sexual there also felt nearly hypocritical. Somehow it really is more relaxed here. At least in the blogs. I like that you can flirt in a joking and lighthearted way here and be decently sexual about it. I NEVER felt that way at vanilla sites. insert exploding bomb image here
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Oh Seek, it is so not just you! I could go on for pages about all of the freakish asshole stuff I've heard/read/seen/been through since I decided to try the online dating thing, but it's just too damned depressing sometimes.  I'll stay out of the cave unless I need to lick my wounds for a bit, but no worries, no one can keep me down for long. 
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Oh hell, they're probably here too. It's amusing when they use the same name and or same pictures. It's just a false advertising thing I guess that pisses me off. I don't care what you're looking for, just be honest about it. I'm thinking everyone would get a lot more success that way. Anywho, welcome to my blog!
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Still love the "fuckchop"! That's exactly it!
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I was hoping you could come play with me and my girl, but since I'm still all sick and congested you're gonna have to help me blow her up this time. Last time I got all dizzy and stuff. Ended up just taking a nap. You know you could always play it straight, set up the appointment, get the address, tell them to be wet and ready by the time you get there, and then phone in a domestic disturbance with the police. Or you could just play interested but see how many wacky demands you can make. Tell him you'll show up but only if you can spank his ass with a carrot. I know you're serious about your search for a decent guy but don't forget stupid people were put here for your amusement. You know, the thought has crossed my mind to really fuck with the assholes like that.  "Be at such and such hotel, 3am sharp, bring the whipped cream and handcuffs, dress totally in rubber and make sure you shave EVERYWHERE." You know, maybe I'll do that next time...You always give me the best ideas! 
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I couldn't stand the vanilla sites because they seem like some sort of badly annoying job interview where you are being scrutinized and judged to the point of ridiculosity. Like it just feels as if a background check is imminent. Plus the complete and utter lack of mentioning anything sexual there also felt nearly hypocritical. Somehow it really is more relaxed here. At least in the blogs. I like that you can flirt in a joking and lighthearted way here and be decently sexual about it. I NEVER felt that way at vanilla sites. I have no problems mentioning sex on the vanilla sites, I'm just honest about it that I love sex, I'm just not going to share it with just anyone. Maybe I'm just too honest and people have no idea how to take that because so many are not.  I also love the relaxed atmosphere here where nothing is really taboo and people can just be themselves. Unfortunately not everyone takes advantage of that, and again lie. It really frustrates. I do love blogland though, and appreciate that with enough reading, you really do get to know a sense of who someone really is. Funny thing is I feel like a freaking spokesperson for Local Adult Companion sometimes. "What, you're looking for NSA? Try Local Adult Companion, just be honest about it, maybe you'll find what you're REALLY looking for there." To which I sometimes get the reply, "YOU'RE on Local Adult Companion?  "
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I believe you can meet someone special anywhere, even on Local Adult Companion. It's all about honesty and respect. So many people are inept at either. It takes some effort to find someone compatible. Too many people think everything should just be handed to them. The rest of life doesn't work that way, so why should finding a great partner? I dunno, yep, some people really do suck, and not in that really good way.  Welcome to my blog!
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Yep, it just makes me wonder sometimes, what is it about ME that attracts that type?
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Huck does rock doesn't he?
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Somehow it felt beneath me. I just wasn't at my wittiest I suppose.
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The rotten lousy fuckers.
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Thanks.
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