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When will I learn?
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When will I learn? On this other site that I'm on a woman contacted me through her husband's profile awhile back saying she was new to the area, wanted to make some new friends etc etc etc, sure, fine, why not...who couldn't use more friends right? So I write back, you know, the usual lil thing yeah, it sounds cool, it'd be nice to have someone to hang out with, do midget things with, whatever. While I'm checking a reply email an IM pops up from the site and it's him, supposedly with his wife, they're driving back home from some gig, yada yada yada, and it's a cool conversation, really, they seem like cool people, fun, funny, down to earth, Great! And then I get this: "If you were bisexual you'd be perfect for us."  Now don't get me wrong, I have nothing against bisexual, gay, tranny, whatever, I just don't care. People are people, fine, I'm okay with it all, I have no prejudices, nada. Some of my favorite people have "alternative lifestyles". I love 'em to pieces. But nowhere, in any of my profiles anywhere does it suggest that I am looking for anything other than straight relationships, be it friendships or other. I dunno if it was an innocent statement, and I didn't have the presence of mind to ask, but I just dunno. I wouldn't want to walk into an awkward situation for myself if these people are looking for a third person to spice up their life. It's not what I am looking for. Anywho, I dunno if I should even respond to anything anymore, or not yet. It would be nice to make new friends, but that just kinda made me take a step back. Suggestions? Ideas?  |
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Seems to me that the couple are "playing the field". Why did they need to ask if you were bi when you've clearly stated in your profile that you are not? Keep making friends but just decline the offers you're not comfortable with. 
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Nope write em off. They are betraying their true wishes for you, and are very likely try to manipulate, regardless of yours. Not being upfront in their profile, then asking this early on is is not cool. You can do better for friends. TMO, ODB All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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That's just it, it wasn't a "shagfest" site, it was a vanilla one.  I have no issues meeting new people, it's just odd the way it all was went about I suppose, and an odd statement out of the blue. Eh, whatever, I'll play it how I see it. 
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I dunno, I guess it just kinda struck me as odd and out of place in the conversation. Like I said, maybe it was just in fun, I dunno. I'll figure it out, or not depending on future conversations. Something you may want to try that a friend suggested to me, bet 'em a dollar that your penis tastes like strawberries. 
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Seems to me that the couple are "playing the field". Why did they need to ask if you were bi when you've clearly stated in your profile that you are not? Keep making friends but just decline the offers you're not comfortable with.  Eh, I can't figure some people out.
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Nope write em off. They are betraying their true wishes for you, and are very likely try to manipulate, regardless of yours. Not being upfront in their profile, then asking this early on is is not cool. You can do better for friends. TMO, ODB 
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I dunno, it seemed kinda odd the whole thing, but I have an open mind. Eh, I'll figure it out.
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I would be leary of meeting them until I made it perfectly clear that friendship is the only interest I had in them. The statement that they made makes me think that they would try to manipulate you into 'trying bi'. And if most of your communication has been with him, I wouldn't be surprised if he is manipulating his wife as well. That is a hell of a statement to make when you are just in the process of getting to know one another. But then pushy sorts always get under my skin anyway. "Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson  
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I would be leary of meeting them until I made it perfectly clear that friendship is the only interest I had in them. The statement that they made makes me think that they would try to manipulate you into 'trying bi'. And if most of your communication has been with him, I wouldn't be surprised if he is manipulating his wife as well. That is a hell of a statement to make when you are just in the process of getting to know one another. But then pushy sorts always get under my skin anyway. 
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4/13/2010 1:26 pm |
"If you were bisexual you'd be perfect for us." And here I had been thinking you were perfect just the way you were...   It may have only been an innocent remark but poorly timed, either way, what ever you decide to do, I hope you approach it cautiously. You can’t be too careful these days. H. 
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"If you were bisexual you'd be perfect for us." And here I had been thinking you were perfect just the way you were... It may have only been an innocent remark but poorly timed, either way, what ever you decide to do, I hope you approach it cautiously. You can’t be too careful these days. H.
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NICE! I've actually since removed all profiles except for the face place and the my space thing since writing this and decided not to futz with this couple cause I had way too much going on to even chance oddness I couldn't and didn't want to have to handle. Future reference though, I've got it!
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