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I am invisible  

xdrearydancerx 35F
627 posts
6/18/2015 3:27 pm
I am invisible

It seems I am caught in a vicious cycle of being rejected and ignored, not just with dating but with sex too. I always want to tell these guys something but I never do. It's so embarrassing and I don't want to show that I care. They are not my boyfriends. I could never allow myself to look desperate like that. Of course, they always find girls prettier, smarter, and more interesting than me. I just don't fit into anything. I might as well not exist.

Well, I've made so much progress since high school. I never dated or kissed anyone until I was 19. Now I am so proud of myself that I can look back on my 20s and remember so many first dates and casual sex. How comforting it is to know that everyone decent will be taken while I become old and ugly and have very low chances.

I also really wish men with girlfriends or wives would fuck off and leave alone. I don't have time for that!!!!

th4t0neguy88 35M
6 posts
6/18/2015 3:37 pm

 I find you very beautiful. Don't think so badly of yourself.


Moan_Master 49M
126 posts
6/18/2015 5:07 pm

 You have nice hair.


thefilthyone 50M
Ask me for a photo

6/18/2015 5:09 pm

 It is sad to hear you talk that way lil lady!!! If you are ever up for some conversation, I am always on IM?!!


danteszippo 59M

6/19/2015 1:25 am

 When you think of yourself in a negative way it really does affect how others see you. From my view, I think you look great.

I too had my first kiss at 19 and glad I didn't do things before I was emotionally able to handle them. I truly believe you can do anything you want to if you just give it a shot. The very same type of girls I used to be shy around eventually became the kind girls I would date, just because I made up my mind to get what I wanted out of life. There are unlimited ways to get what you want out of life, and the possibilities are endless only if you keep at it.

I went from a geeky misfit who could barely speak to a girl to dating and going out with some very sexy and attractive women. Just saying if you want something you can get it.


BigOlTeddyBear44 60M
367 posts
6/20/2015 4:02 pm

 Hey do not fee bad I find you very sexy!

Teddy


danteszippo 59M

6/22/2015 2:08 am

 Switch up what you're eating and think positive. if you say you cannnot do something then you will surely fail. Not just throwing out stupid compliments, you're at an age when change is just a thought away from happening. I have found that you can do anything you want to if you are willing to stop doing things that are not working for you. Discipline is as easy as just saying to yourself, "I'm not going to do (whatever it is that's not working) that anymore, you brain will follow what you decide to do and it all falls into place in time.


danteszippo 59M

6/23/2015 1:29 am

 I get what you mean, but a few visits to a competent dentist can get things better faster than you think it would. They make veneers that don't cost that much and you can fix that one tooth at a time and it will be great. I just broke a tooth and they had it looking perfect in one visit.

keep at it, make it an ongoing project to make yourself feel better.

ps, it's not gross, things happen to everyone. its just life.


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