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Smiles to All.....  

Ginny369 52F
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12/26/2009 12:10 am

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Smiles to All.....
Finally started to find some peace of mind today. I have never cared much for this time of yr. Seems from Thanksgiving to Easter I just want to crawl into a hole & hide. Haven't even celebrated New Years Eve in 5 yrs. Christmas I usually barely am able to endure but for my mom & grandma I would just smile & make the best of it. With the passing of my grandma recently I really wasn't looking forward to the Holidays. Yet today was one of the best Christmas I can recall. Fall/Winter are a time to let go of people & situations that are no longer here to enjoy or are not enjoying you. It's not about taking it personally, it's about realization. The one you like may not & probably will not like you. OK YEA!!! That was fun...lol...not really but it is what it is. I know it is up to me to decide if I am going to be happy or wallow in self doubt. I have spent a lot more years getting to know me than I have someone who doesn't take the time to know me or isn't listening. I have had so much positive re pore from several people who are just trying to get by & have some fun in the mean time. I appreciate the insight & have much respect that you took time to read my blog & either comment on it or send a PM expressing similar hopes & fears. Yes it is comforting to know that there is still real people who understand & value the truth. I will not be sitting home alone New Yeras Eve this year. Not sure what I will be doing but I will not bring in another year the same as this year started off. I think it is time to write some goodbye letters even if only for me to find closure. Am hoping you all had a good Christmas & that the New Year will bring a positive change in all who seek one. ((HUGS))
vimar2 61M/52F
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12/26/2009 8:47 am

 well we wish you the very best during this holiday season and the smile in the pics do work its an honor to have you as a friend on our friends list keep in touch and as always you can always email us till then keep that smile going and have an awsome day and a happy new year


findin_fun_nokc 70M
6 posts
12/27/2009 3:28 am

 WOW, very powerful feelings, emotions, truths. I know those feelings myself, tired of being alone but determined to get it right or not at all. I sure wish I had an answer - I'd be glad to share it. Every day you wake up is a good day, and one foot in front of the other gets you closer to a dream.


whybenorm06 56M  
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12/27/2009 6:08 am

 The closure will be a good thing for you, because this is a time of year for change and transformation. Emerge in the New Year with and attitude that says I'm going to learn what I can from the bad parts and leave them behind me in my past and only carry the positive things forward with me into the new year, and you will find a lot more of that peace of mind you are talking about. Happiness really is just an attitude that you choose or not, and the choice is yours. Make it a good one


rm_Okcman22 48M

12/28/2009 11:08 am

 Glad you found some peace and hope that the rest of 2009 and the future continues with the peaceful mind!! Thanks for coming by the blog..hoep to see you again!


atikbarni019870 36M

1/13/2010 10:10 am

 What a romantic view


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