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Dick to Smarts  

SexyFreakyCpl21 44M/36F
8 posts
3/31/2010 1:40 pm
Dick to Smarts

I always find it amusing when people say that "guys think with their dicks too much" because a dick cannot think, just like a vagina cannot think. So when I say a lot of men should start thinking with their dicks more, what I really mean to say is a lot of men need to stop thinking so much!

This is especially true for smart men. I know a lot of smart men who are very good with women, and I know other smart men who couldn't get laid if their life depended on it. The difference is the former have learned how to think less. For smart men, the biggest cock blocker they have is their brain! Dumb guys don't have this problem. Take Tommy Lee, for example: He's got a big dick and a small brain, and he gets laid like crazy. He is lucky to have a brain that's too small to get in the way of his penis. In general, guys with big cocks and small brains are very good with women.

For me one of the most useful things I learned form the Tantras is the ability to slow down my thinking. When smart guys have sex, we often have thoughts like "Am I giving her enough pleasure, am I doing this right, blah blah blah" racing through our heads that can really trip us up. This is the origin of performance anxiety, and extreme performance anxiety can make it hard to have an erection, or cause<b> premature ejaculation. </font></b>Even positive thinking can be a problem because the more you are thinking the less you are in the moment, and being in the moment is great for sexual performance and pleasure!

In case you haven't noticed, I don't mind saying things that are a little controversial! lol

singleryan19 33M

4/1/2010 10:09 am

 nicely said


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