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Openminded? Or Secretly Judgmental... That is the question  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4265 posts
5/19/2011 1:29 pm
Openminded? Or Secretly Judgmental... That is the question
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cute_n_nerdy 43F
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1478 posts
5/19/2011 3:16 pm

 People in the BDSM scene like to tout the whole "i'm totally tolerant of everything - YKINMK but it's okay" party line. It's not true. They're as close-minded and judgmental as anyone else - they only spew that BS when it's *their* kink up on the examining table

I do believe that everyone has the right to enjoy those things that make them tingly, so long as informed consent is involved. It doesn't mean that I won't think it's gross, because honestly - I think scat and vomit play *are* gross. But hey, all the power to you if you enjoy it! It'd be nice if people accepted that I'm not judging them *as a person* for their quirks - merely stating that I don't enjoy those same things.

*shrugs* hell, people think I'm weird because I enjoy piercing. I even got a lecture from a guy about mutilating my body.


im_soaking_wet 40F
1024 posts
5/19/2011 4:12 pm

 I agree. I think certain things are gross (like scat), but as you said, I would never judge a person for it. Whatever floats their boat.

I had a guy email me saying that in one of my photos it looked like there was a few men there and that it was not only "selfish, but dangerous" to be in a room with that many men. Seriously? However, for those who don't know me, ya.. that might be valid. But I am the girl that would NEVER put myself in a situation that I was remotely unsure of.

C'est Le Vie eh?


Trya67 56M

5/20/2011 6:17 am

 I can only comment on my own actions and believes . I don't judge people on their sexual choices . As long as they enjoy and don't force it onto others . Then i have nothing to judge or say . I was a true vanilla guy until the last year . So still learning my way around the alternative lifestyles and choices and people you my meet in this lifestyle .


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/20/2015 3:45 am

 I´m openminded, but i confess from time to time i make judgements. Kisses


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