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When Do You Meet?  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4263 posts
1/21/2013 9:50 am
When Do You Meet?
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thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
1/21/2013 10:40 am

 Hi Soaking, Long time reader, first time commenter.

I am in agreement. I attempt to arraign the meet very soon after the first contact. Chemistry is very important to me which does not always come thru in e-mail, texts and phone conversation. The only grey area is the scheduling. Life may cause a slight delay, if it takes more then a month, there was not enough mutual interest to continue.


im_soaking_wet replies on 1/22/2013 11:04 am:
Does a month not feel like a very long time? Get in, get out - is my motto

DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
1/21/2013 10:57 am

 Id say a month or two is my average, but theres also the schedule factor and distance. Im rarely nearby someone i want to meet


im_soaking_wet replies on 1/22/2013 11:05 am:
Based soley on location, I can understand that...

AB_Dragon 60M
102 posts
1/21/2013 3:44 pm

 I think the sooner you meet the better... whether it leads to anything or not.
If things go nowhere after that first meeting, at least you haven't wasted each others time.
If things do go somewhere, then, to quote Shakespear (or maybe Bacon depending on which theory you suscribe to)"If it were done when t'was done, then t'were well It were done quickly." Or more colloqially vernacular (of Larry the Cable Guy) "Git-R-Done!"

If you let things drag on too long, one or both parties may lose interest or will have built up an image or expectations of the other person that may be completely wrong if not totally unrealistic, leading to disappointment and/or frustration.


im_soaking_wet replies on 1/22/2013 11:05 am:
Exactly. You don't want to build up to an unreal expectation

cute_n_nerdy 43F
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1478 posts
1/21/2013 4:02 pm

 I usually met within the space of 1-2 emails. Since I was mainly looking for sex, I didn't see a point to wasting time on idle chitchat. I had to meet to see if I would ever want to have sex with them because otherwise why bother?


im_soaking_wet replies on 1/22/2013 11:06 am:
Exactly!

kspoon2 64M
52 posts
1/25/2013 3:48 pm

 Well meeting soon is a good idea but for some it may be hard some people are shy and it takes some time for them to feel out if there is interest from the other person . I know myself i am a bit shy and like to talk and get to know the person as freinds are as important to me as fwb are .


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/26/2013 7:09 am

 I find it's best to meet as soon as possible. Connection and chemistry is utmost to me, and that can only be found out through a face to face meet. That being said, I do understand a woman's point of view, and am always patient and let them bring up meeting.
Thoughts from the Garden...


talldark884 59M
714 posts
1/26/2013 2:30 pm

 I think more people want to wait to make sure there are no safety issues, but I think if you meet in public and have some sense about you, after 1-2 emails, you should be OK. I like to see the whites of thier eyes to be able to pass some kind of judgement.
I heard that there was a potential issue on another site in US, but have not heard that here.
I have done 1-2 emails before meeting and 10-20..
I am Mostly a lurker though..


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/17/2015 5:36 am

 Only met 3 women from Local Adult Companion. Kisses


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