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I would say you need to decide how much of a position of authority does your mate need to be in? Does he need to be a judge, politician or CEO? You may need to find a happy medium in someone who runs his own medium sized business but still retains control in the bedroom. Or maybe you just need to find someone who is in that type of position and can switch in the bedroom between being dominant and less so. But I think overall if you are more or less limiting yourself to dating men who are currently in a traditional position of power you are going to become disappointed and not have as much fun in the bedroom as you would if you broadened your pool. Dating someone that your co-workers, friends or socialites end up questioning why you are dating this guy who makes less than you, owns a older car than is socially acceptable in your circles etc may be the sacrifice you will need to make to basically have orgasms on demand. Knowing that he may not know all the right people, but he can at least find the right spots. You can sit there at the dinner party knowing that, yeah the woman across from you is dating a CEO from who the fuck cares corp, but she hasn't had a non self administered orgasm in 5 years because her husband spends all day taking control and doesn't want to do that when he gets home. Just my $0.00 as the $0.02 were rounded down.
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Don't let society's straitjackets limit you. There are tradesmen who run their own small/medium sized businesses but are physically strong and assertive in bed or wherever you get it on. You may even find some white collar (small/medium) business owners like that. Stepping out of our cocoon is key to finding..and enjoying what we want
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I can totally relate to this blog post. Unfortunately I don't have an answer for you other than having multiple relationships. Personally I can't "submit" to a man that isn't authoritative in every day life. Switching from "would you take out the trash and did you remember to pay the bills" to "yes sir" just doesn't happen for me.
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Hello there, there is nothing to worry about here, all you are doing is becoming a switch, one who can dominate and be dominated that is all..enjoy it!!!
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I have found the same thing in regards to women, the ones who are in control over a lot of people are the ones who want to be dominated. I went out with a COO of an oil company once, and though she was wealthy and had a more masculine sensibility on our date, once we got into the bedroom she wanted it rough and me to tell her to do everything. That must be why she kept coming back. You can date a dominant man who makes the right amount of money to keep up with you and who isn't a boss/CEO type either yet. Could be a midlevel guy, but if you don't interface with them, then thats a problem. That may be the route to go to find the best of both worlds. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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3/25/2016 7:48 am |
Nothing wrong with switching it up
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or look for that rare Dominant that is an authority figure
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You are like me, a switch. Nothing wrong with that. You like to feel fully desired, and you want to demonstrate your desire. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Hey Soakes. Glad to see you back in blogland. On to your post, why are you putting so much emphasis on titles and positions? It sounds like you found someone that made you happy and satisfied you at least in the bedroom (you really didn't elaborate on what your relationship is outside the bedroom, so we don't know what kind of public personality your friend has). Bravo for trying something/someone outside your comfort zone. I think the goal is and probably always has been to find someone that makes you happy and that can satisfy you at the same time, regardless of their position. Sounds like an easy decision to make. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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Don´t have a straight answer for you, just do what you feel is more comfortable for you. Kisses
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Sounds like you are looking for that rare gem. I hope you find him; in the meantime, enjoy the prospecting.  “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Do what feels good and if it feels good do it often!
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Honestly, the right guy will tick all the boxes for you regardless of what you think you want in either public or private... If he doesn't, then he's not the right guy... make sense? "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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It's the classical conundrum of secrecy versus pleasure. - albeit in my knowledge , and I suspect yours as well, nothing stays secret for ever. Good luck with that , my lady Just my 2 cents really - P
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