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Blogs > sexyldy1000 > Lady’s Lair 📚 🖊

Never Be Ashamed Of A Scar
 

sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:00 am
    Quoting thikhead:
    they call "hickeys" love-marks, and moles beauty-marks,
    guess you can consider scars "LIFE-marks" ?

    my only openly visible ones (when clothed), thank god,
    are many simple oven-rack burns on my arms
    collected over the years.
    but i DID once have a doctor ask if i did "cutting".
    at least it WAS his business to ask.

    as far as your date casually asking, i can see it,
    but going right to "knife-fight"? BIG warning flag.

    good move moving on asap
What a great perspective! My reaction was instant and without hesitation. He needed to be educated! Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:03 am
    Quoting shoot_blanks:
    I have a beauty of a scar running sown from just below my navel to a few inches above..... I am a prostate cancer survivor and have lived without a prostate since August 2002. I can no longer ejaculate, have not had a normal/natural erection since August 17, 2002 and no longer ooze precum at the beginning of festivities. The worst part is that the surgery cut a hole in my urinary system and I drip. But, I'm alive, cancer free and still have magnificent orgasms....
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your journey. It's a bond that more and more of us share. Statistics now are that one in two people will be touched by cancer in their lifetime!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:05 am
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I don't have any tattoos but I've got some nice scars. I've always said tattoos are bought, but scars are earned. My Ex had a scar that ran from one side to the other side across her throat from gland surgery, it was so sexy....
What a great perspective! Supports why we should never be ashamed of them.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:06 am
    Quoting p1947q:
    [image}

    for the courage to share
Thank you. It's something I have debated about posting for a long time. Everyone's support is heart warming


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:09 am
    Quoting trixietrixster:
    A while back, I did a blog on scars as well. I've got several due to surgery for auto immune system issues. My under arms look like they were sewn back together - bout a 12 inch scar under my left boob - somewhat faded now. And, several others. Like you, I won't let them define me ... they give us character ... show that we lived life and not just sat on the sidelines. What a fucking douche bag he was to say something like that. No - don't think you overreacted. If he was truly interested in knowing, I believe he absolutely should have been more tactful. Way to go for fighting and being a survivor of such a terrible illness, brave, brave lady! *snuggles*
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your journey. I don't think of myself as brave, but I am strong and resilient. Two years ago, I was diagnosed with something that truly gave me an encounter with the 'bright light on the other side'. I am grateful everyday that I wake up to see another day. *Snuggles* back to you


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:09 am
    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    They are just part of life!! Meant that you lived and you are still alive!!!
Absolutely agree! Thank you for stopping by


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:10 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    hmmm... I guess everyone has a scar of some sort or another. Some are just more visible.
The hidden or invisible ones are often more devastating.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 4:12 am
    Quoting Dark_Star1972:
    That is an amazing song! It's the song that made me a fan of hers.
It is a great song that became an anthem for people struggling with body image. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 5:44 am
    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    Thank you my friend for sharing this with us, I love you for your courage. Like Tmptrzz said, scars are a fact of life, I hope one day can have the courage you do
Thank you for your support. I don’t think of myself as brave. I have done what I needed to do to survive and keep going 😊.


MrRareity 64M
4589 posts
7/21/2020 9:35 am

 I have many scars from my waist up all from surgeries. One is in the front of my chest it is longer than the scar of someone who's had OHS. The bad thing about it is it looks like I have two butts on my chest. I have them on my shoulder, and the rest are on my back and hips. I have told people that I was in a knife fight as a joke when they ask after they have seen them as an ice breaker. Believe me I can and do understand how you feel. I have never noticed and even if I did I wouldn't ask you about them. If you want to tell me you will if you don't you won't. I don't blame you for leaving when you did. I do think it was a poor choice of words he used, and that maybe if you just explained to him what happened he could of apologized to you, and you could have talk about it and educated him about cancer.
We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 10:50 am
    Quoting MrRareity:
    I have many scars from my waist up all from surgeries. One is in the front of my chest it is longer than the scar of someone who's had OHS. The bad thing about it is it looks like I have two butts on my chest. I have them on my shoulder, and the rest are on my back and hips. I have told people that I was in a knife fight as a joke when they ask after they have seen them as an ice breaker. Believe me I can and do understand how you feel. I have never noticed and even if I did I wouldn't ask you about them. If you want to tell me you will if you don't you won't. I don't blame you for leaving when you did. I do think it was a poor choice of words he used, and that maybe if you just explained to him what happened he could of apologized to you, and you could have talk about it and educated him about cancer.
Wow! Sounds like you have been through a lot! Thank you for sharing your journey. His words were kind of the 'icing on the cake'. I didn't feel obliged to give him any explanation other than what I did. Hope you continue to be strong!


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
7/21/2020 8:56 pm

 I do think that we have for the most part became a society looking for perfection. But, those imperfections tell the true story about us and how strong we truly are ! I admire that you got up and walked out on that guy !!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/22/2020 12:47 am
    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    I do think that we have for the most part became a society looking for perfection. But, those imperfections tell the true story about us and how strong we truly are ! I admire that you got up and walked out on that guy !!
It was uncharacteristic for me to do so but I have never regretted my decision. Thank you for stopping by 😊.


Solfan55 69M
500 posts
7/22/2020 9:58 am

 Most of us have scars, some are visible and some aren't. Some are skin deep and others buried deep in our psyche. Our scars shouldn't define us.

That was a great response to the @$$ you were having dinner with!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/22/2020 12:44 pm
    Quoting Solfan55:
    Most of us have scars, some are visible and some aren't. Some are skin deep and others buried deep in our psyche. Our scars shouldn't define us.

    That was a great response to the @$$ you were having dinner with!
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Normally, I wouldn't speak that way to some one, but in his case I just had to.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
7/22/2020 3:02 pm

 I have scars over most of my body, most are from childhood adventures. Some used to bother me, now I look at them as souvenirs from another time. Most of us have scars shows we have lived.😁


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/22/2020 5:46 pm
    Quoting 1seeking1:
    I have scars over most of my body, most are from childhood adventures. Some used to bother me, now I look at them as souvenirs from another time. Most of us have scars shows we have lived.😁
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your journey. Accepting them as part of us is key for coping. In my case, I acquired 21 'new' ones over a period of less than 2 years. Most have faded but not all. I will never forget how I got them.


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