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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Some men's search and pick me strategy  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
9/14/2012 6:56 am
Some men's search and pick me strategy

Good morning everybody.

I have a girlfriend that decided she would like to join Local Adult Companion. She has been on other dating sites, but I told her I prefer this site to all of them.

I helped get her profile set up, took pics, downloaded pics, and showed her how to navigate the site. With that being said, I was able to see the same men send her messages and pics that have also approached me......I smile at that.

If you as a woman wants an eye opener, go to a girlfriends site in the same area, and see what the dudes do. Some attach the same pics, some use the same lines. It looks to me like conveyor belt sex.....the more I hit on, I will get some.

It seems that alot of you dudes have pretty much a set pattern. Search, send the same general email, and pics, use the same pick up line. From what I can gather is men seem to go on a search and pick me mission with several women, hoping some of them bite. I have answered some of those messages, and am still talking to some of you.

With all that being said, it sort of makes me wonder when I do respond, and meet, did you do it because I was the one that answered your message out of all you sent out. Or did you do it because you really wanted to meet me.

It's not a bad thing, I guess to me, it shows who the players really are, when they are not telling you they are.

I am not saying us women dont do the same thing,,,,,,I know I dont,,,,,,I dont know about the rest on here.

Have a great day
Good luck in whatever you are searching for on here....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/14/2012 3:30 pm

 the emails are not bad, what I noticed is they sent both her and me almost the exact same emails, and also within a few minutes of each other. thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


guyfromkentucky 62M  
Ask me for a photo
155 posts
9/24/2012 11:01 am

 I know that for my part, I will send messages to initiate a conversation to see if there's any mutual interest. There has to be some connection and you don't know if you have that connection until you chat, exchange emails, etc.

I for one would not expect to get sex after one email, but after a conversation to see if we want to take it a step farther.


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