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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

what I miss in a relationship #11  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
10/12/2014 4:29 pm
what I miss in a relationship #11

I had a 7 hour trip to reflect on life. Since I didn't have a radio for over a year, I have gotten used to silence while driving and used that time for life's reflection, prayer, or whatever one does by themselves while driving. No, I don't play with myself, haha, even when not driving.

I miss having everyday communication with the person I care about. Either by text, talking on the phone or in person. Don't get me wrong, I don't have to be up your ass 24/7. I have a very very good fwb friend that is married and lives a distance away. We have been fwb for over 2 years now. One thing we do that I like, is we tell each other good morning and good night in our own special way.

At first it may sound sappy, but I like it. There are times, that one of us hasn't responded. I was otherwise occupied and had the phone turned off, but if I miss either time, I respond the next time.

I like the fact that someone cares about me even though I may not see them for months at a time.

I miss being able to call my lover at any time just to say high, or to send a text for no reason at all. I also miss being able to call for advice on anything I might need help with, or issues I may have going on. I also miss them picking up the phone to say hi, send a text or call for advice as well. That's all.

Good luck in what you are search for here,,,,,,,,,,,thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
10/13/2014 5:41 am
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I prefer the drone of the engine over music on a long trip.I can get so much thinking done. I've been enjoying NOT texting with anyone. I can lose a lot of time that way, but sometimes would be nice.
I forgot to add to this mix in my case. All of the men I have loved have not lived in my city. So texting or talking was important to me.

If I was involved with someone close by, I would not expect as much texting or talking on the phone, since I was seeing you more often. Hope that explains it more...........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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