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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

take that lil step  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
12/7/2014 8:28 am
take that lil step

I have been a busy lil woman on here. weather it's getting me anywhere, I don't know, haha. that means probably not, but I am having fun while working at it anyway.

I have been talking in the talking and meet n greet stages with more than on of you at the moment. Some of you if you were closer, we would be enjoying each others pleasures right now, but that is to come.

So, a couple men had piqued my interest. We have been talking long enough. I offered both a meet n greet on the spur of the moment, which did not work out at the time. If you know me, I am a spur of the moment person. anyway, one said he had to look at his schedule to see when he could get out to meet for a drink, I'm like ok. (he does not work, and told me he didn't get out much anymore, I'm thinking all righty then.) The other, just never set a day or time. although he was invited. They were both invited again to a spur of the moment concert on Tuesday. I had the tickets. guess what, neither could do it again. I'm like ok. It's been long enough, time to move on. which I am, and did. guess what they are both on here, and still trying to message me, come on, you had your chance more than once.

I also had a meet n greet with one of the men that put off the concert for his 's allergic reaction. guess what, the didn't have the courtesy to let his father know it was nothing. At least his dad takes it in stride, and we finally did meet. I told him, I didn't know if we would ever get to meet, and we actually like each other.

I figure we are here to meet with some sort of goal. I don't sweat it, if you want to meet me and see me again, great, if not, it's your loss, not mine.

I look at it this way, life is short, we should be happy, enjoy ourselves.

good luck in what you are searching for here.........................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
12/7/2014 8:37 am

 I wouldn't mind 'penpal' association. Hard enough to find genuine decent connection with someone locally, let alone preclude them from your life on geographical basis. Many people have friends in the real world who are 5 minutes away yet rarely stay in touch

The quality the connection brings matters more than whether you get to meet


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
12/7/2014 1:21 pm
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    All the good ones are cross country, I tried seeing a woman 180 miles away for a while. It was too far to even meet once in a while. It wouldn't be fair to either of us and I think she realized that. For 2 years I drove to Austin 80 miles one way, ugh too much time spent on the road. So I'm in a similar boat, the pickens are slim, but I suspect you have a lot more "possibles" than me.
the good thing for the guy, is that I am willing to relocate, so distance should not be an issue. distance can be an issue, but if you really like each other, both of you can make it happen. My job will follow me as well.......................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
12/7/2014 1:25 pm
    Quoting flowerkings2012:
    I wouldn't mind 'penpal' association. Hard enough to find genuine decent connection with someone locally, let alone preclude them from your life on geographical basis. Many people have friends in the real world who are 5 minutes away yet rarely stay in touch

    The quality the connection brings matters more than whether you get to meet
but who really wants to be a pen pal. it's all about meeting, unless writing is what one wants, not me.....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
12/7/2014 1:26 pm
    Quoting bjason007:
    You have a great outlook on things!
I truly think I am a mess, but thanks for the comment...................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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