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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

I prefer to think the sex is my idea  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
4/6/2015 11:52 pm
I prefer to think the sex is my idea

good morning, I hope this finds you well.

This is my lil rant for the evening. Yes, Local Adult Companion in considered and on-line adult dating site. In fact it says it's "the world's largest sex dating site and swinger personals community" How to prove those numbers, I don't have a clue. I see others out there saying pretty much the same thing.

The wonderful thing about this site is, you can find it all. People here to blog only, watch porn, chat in the chat rooms, write for the newspaper, phone sex, live on line experiences, penpals, friends, fuck buddies, long term, short term, casual, nsa, or whatever the hell you are looking for. It's here.

From my perspective, when you are interacting with me, from the first email to the meet n greet, or the first fuck or whatever the hell I decide to do with you. We know what we are doing, If it's just about the sex for you, could you at least please act like it's not. It's not just about the sex for me, even if it is a one nighter.

The more you make it just about the sex, the more I will back away, decide you are a player and not worth my time. It' best to let the woman think the sex is her idea. It's what I prefer.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here..............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
4/7/2015 12:08 am

 Like what you say and it is true. It is our idea that we should be having "the sex" we want and not be used because we say yes. It is that romantic part that says we are opening up to that person. Need that feedback on that level. So give it to us!!!! Another girl....M


leo27895 56M
57 posts
4/7/2015 12:21 am

 Well I have been on this site a long time and I do find a lot of women do just want to have sex. I prefer to talk and be friends and get to know You. Then We may can go from there. I am into good hygiene and cleanness. If You are into just one night standing and bed hoping You do not know and have any idea what You are getting Yourself into. I am about having friends and fun.


hughjarce 68M
Ask me for a photo
595 posts
4/7/2015 5:30 am

 I have learned to appreciate that sex is ALWAYS the woman's idea and I am always receptive and very, very grateful!...


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/7/2015 5:59 am
    Quoting cozzycouple:
    Like what you say and it is true. It is our idea that we should be having "the sex" we want and not be used because we say yes. It is that romantic part that says we are opening up to that person. Need that feedback on that level. So give it to us!!!! Another girl....M
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the playtime, but there is more than that. When a guys just pushes for sex and keeps making innuendoes, It doesn't go far with me. Now, on the other hand if we are in some sort of a relationship, even fuck buddy, fire away with the sex remarks..............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/7/2015 6:04 am
    Quoting leo27895:
    Well I have been on this site a long time and I do find a lot of women do just want to have sex. I prefer to talk and be friends and get to know You. Then We may can go from there. I am into good hygiene and cleanness. If You are into just one night standing and bed hoping You do not know and have any idea what You are getting Yourself into. I am about having friends and fun.
It's not that we don't want the sex, it's how you approach me in the initial message, the following conversations, when we talk on the phone, and then when we meet. A big red flag for me, is when a guy approaches me, if i am having regular conversation here or on the phone with you, I am interested. Please, just because I travel and get home weekends don't wait until you know I am coming home and shoot me an email. Where were you all week. You don't have to message me everyday, but we have not met and I don't know much about you. I am interested in what makes you tick. If the sex is going to happen it will..........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/7/2015 6:08 am
    Quoting hughjarce:
    I have learned to appreciate that sex is ALWAYS the woman's idea and I am always receptive and very, very grateful!...
there you go. have a great day...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/7/2015 6:10 am
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I'm not here for the sex at all. Just bloggin, bloggin, bloggin......
if you say so Mcmaniac. You a blogging monk........ ........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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