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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Marriage, or fuck the hell out of each other and move on  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
9/8/2015 11:56 am
Marriage, or fuck the hell out of each other and move on
Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

This is something I have been pondering for awhile now.

People are meant to be together one way or another.

Should people be married.

Or should people fuck the hell out of each other and move on.

It seems the new love or the glow disappears over time. What do you do.

You figure out how to keep that excitement, love, contentment, or spontaneity going, or it falls apart.

At the moment, the most committed I am is friends with benefits. Two for 3 years now.

Sometimes I wonder, would all the pleasure get stale if it was exclusive with one.

I don't think there is a definitive answer.

When it comes down to it, I still believe in love and commitment. Maybe the commitment could come down to what the 2 involved agree upon.

Any thoughts?
married until death do us part
married for a set period of time, divorce, remarry
married - swing, outside sex with boundaries, or no restrictions
committed, exclusive relationship until it ends
committed, exclusive for a set period of time
committed - swing, outside sex with boundaries, or no restrictions
friends with benefits

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
9/8/2015 12:16 pm

 For me, it is an age thing. It is only FWB until the time run out.

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
9/8/2015 12:48 pm

 Friends with benefits works for me...


JustHere2Cam 56M
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14229 posts
9/8/2015 1:44 pm

 It all depends on the people as we don't all want the same things. Mrs. P and I have a wonderful marriage together, but we're also okay with it being non-monogamous. We simply see it as being able to fill in the gaps of what the other doesn't offer sexually, but it doesn't mean we love each other any less. You probably won't find a happier marriage than ours.

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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/8/2015 1:55 pm
    Quoting Han54boat:
    For me, it is an age thing. It is only FWB until the time run out.
ohhhhhhh but darlin, you have 20 - 30 more years.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/8/2015 1:56 pm
    Quoting Great_eight:
    Friends with benefits works for me...
I like my fwb's.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/8/2015 1:59 pm
    Quoting JustHere2Cam:
    It all depends on the people as we don't all want the same things. Mrs. P and I have a wonderful marriage together, but we're also okay with it being non-monogamous. We simply see it as being able to fill in the gaps of what the other doesn't offer sexually, but it doesn't mean we love each other any less. You probably won't find a happier marriage than ours.
How are you, love the comment. I know from following you and Mrs.P, and others I have met, it seems many swingers are secure in their relationship....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
9/8/2015 5:03 pm

 Up until some time ago, I would have gone with a committed relationship, but here lately, the FWB seems to be a better option.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/8/2015 6:56 pm

 oh hell, you do a great job at that...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/8/2015 6:57 pm
    Quoting sphxdiver:
    Up until some time ago, I would have gone with a committed relationship, but here lately, the FWB seems to be a better option.
I sort of give up. I run the gammet from one end of the spectrum to the other.....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/9/2015 6:49 am
    Quoting  :
I agree, it comes down to what the two people involved decide is best for them................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/11/2015 11:53 am
    Quoting  :
I totally agree, whatever works for the 2 involved is what's important......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/12/2015 8:37 am
    Quoting  :
Sex to me with love is the best of all. They do both have their place.....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/12/2015 5:31 pm
    Quoting sweetwhisper22:
    Glad to see all the people here being so civil Good community here

    To each their own is my philosophy.
they generally are...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
9/17/2015 6:26 pm
    Quoting madfromme:
    Was married for 29yrs. Poly is kinda fun,
something to think about.................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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