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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

My date from a vanilla site  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
4/3/2016 8:52 pm
My date from a vanilla site

Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

I had a meet new greet, and we both decided to go out again, and enjoy some playtime.

This is how that went.

She packed an over night bag, after all it was a date and playtime.

While enjoying a drink and some chatter he informs her his wants to spend the night and he won't tell her he has plans.

I told him, he should have told me when he called and we could have rescheduled

He said no, I thought we would go to dinner, and come back here.

We can play and then you can go home.

I'm thinking seriously, you want a fuck and run.

I told you when I met you, if I just want a one nighter, I can get it from the guy sitting beside me.

He said something about us being adults and knowing what we were here for.

If that was what was discussed and something we agreed to, the fuck and run, that would have been ok.

Or if I had known
him for awhile, I'd do a fuck n run.

Obviously we both had different ideas about the date and playtime, and spending the night.

I went home, and no, I didn't fuck him.

Lesson learned, make sure you both are on the same page.

Needless to say, he went by the way side. He was just looking for that fuck and

My experience with men from a vanilla site is that 75% are attached and or just wanting a one nighter, or fuck and run.

They all say, I am looking for a relationship, yadyadyadyada. They have a button that says, I want no commitments at all (nsa), (fb). I want casual dating (fwb).

It seems they also skate around the sex discussion on the meet n greet.

If it was a guy from Local Adult Companion, sex would have been open discussion.

Of course, that's just my perception, and a majority of my experience from the vanilla sites.

Have a good evening.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
4/3/2016 9:22 pm

 I have found the much of the same thing. Much prefer meeting men from here where the topic of sex is out in the open and no one feels they have to hide it.

For some reason being sexually propositioned from men here isn't offensive to me...it's pretty much expected. All the pics of genitalia and videos graphically depicting a multitude of sex acts by both males and females sort of promote that type of atmosphere. But when I get the same from men on vanilla sites it doesn't feel appropriate.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


1ALLNYTR 59M
Ask me for a photo
248 posts
4/3/2016 9:32 pm

 We each have different experiences but the so called "vanilla sites" have served me well. For me it seems like women are more willing to chat,talk,open to conversation on the other sites than here. I admit that the rare conversation that actually lead to a meet also turned sexual on here. The same can be said for my 'vanilla site " experiences. I think you two somehow didnt communicate well or long enough


Icould 65M
3988 posts
4/3/2016 10:26 pm

 I thought this was the vanilla site ...lol
There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:16 am
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I never discussed sex on any of my dates from vanilla sites, but those were usually one dinner and I didn't want any more.
It's hard to get to a meet n greet, let alone a date.......they just want to go straight to fucking, or be your penpal........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:16 am
    Quoting  :
I find they are very unforthcoming with what they want........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:18 am
    Quoting  :
We all want the booty, the vanilla guys, put all this shit on their profiles, when at least 75% just want sex, and many one time...that's ok, just be up front about it...thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:20 am
    Quoting tresennui:
    I have found the much of the same thing. Much prefer meeting men from here where the topic of sex is out in the open and no one feels they have to hide it.

    For some reason being sexually propositioned from men here isn't offensive to me...it's pretty much expected. All the pics of genitalia and videos graphically depicting a multitude of sex acts by both males and females sort of promote that type of atmosphere. But when I get the same from men on vanilla sites it doesn't feel appropriate.
I agree, and again, many are attached, including my neighbor that I blog about, that has his woman of 26 years with him, but he is widowed on the vanilla site. I find he is the norm on that site.?.......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:23 am
    Quoting 1ALLNYTR:
    We each have different experiences but the so called "vanilla sites" have served me well. For me it seems like women are more willing to chat,talk,open to conversation on the other sites than here. I admit that the rare conversation that actually lead to a meet also turned sexual on here. The same can be said for my 'vanilla site " experiences. I think you two somehow didnt communicate well or long enough
I have found from talking to my dates, men get alot of play on the vanilla sites, especially from married attached women. Some of the guys have shown me the messages. I usually turn men on to the site if they are not having much luck here......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/4/2016 7:23 am
    Quoting Icould:
    I thought this was the vanilla site ...lol
Haha, I guess it depends on what you are into.....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/5/2016 6:34 am
    Quoting  :
They all just want one thing, the sex.......here its up front though.....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/6/2016 6:09 pm
    Quoting  :
I have not thought of it all that way, but it does make sense to ke. But the one nighter still need to be weeded out, unless that what is wanted at the time...by both parties....thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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